In fairy tales, fearsome dragons and evil wizards often stand in the way of the main characters’ “happily ever after.” And although in reality they, fortunately, do not exist, romantic relationships have no less insidious enemies - such as boredom and habit.
Do not underestimate them: they are quite capable of extinguishing the flame of even a very bright passion. But everything is not so hopeless - you can always throw a few fresh logs into the fire of your love, and it will flare up with renewed vigor.
One easy way to do this is to organize a surprise for your beloved guy. Below we will suggest some unusual and effective ideas.
Tips for organizing an evening
Following the script is only half the success. Even carefully planned events were ruined due to unforeseen trifles. Therefore, you need to protect yourself from failure and listen to the advice of experienced romantics.
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The recommendations are as follows:
- There is no need to prepare complex dishes for the table (in case it doesn’t work out).
- If you doubt your abilities, you can always order ready-made food in a restaurant.
- Sometimes you can only rely on dessert.
- To get a surprise, you still need to warn your partner that they are waiting for him at home, but not show all your cards.
- Choosing the right day is the second half of success. If your partner is having difficulties at work or has urgent unfinished business on the side, it will be difficult for him to get into the right mood.
- A theme evening cannot be a surprise and must be prepared jointly and in advance.
- Preference should be given to weak cocktails or light wine. Otherwise the evening may be ruined.
- Romance and quality relaxation are impossible without candles, but there shouldn’t be too many of them.
- It is necessary to understand that hard rock, even if it is universally preferred, cannot accompany a romantic meeting. Therefore, you need to find a light instrumental composition without voice accompaniment.
A home environment can help you relax better than any other. And this promotes relaxed communication and even greater rapprochement.
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Romantic dinner
A lover is not afraid to go to the ends of the earth. Romantic natures are ready to cross seas and oceans. Conquer mountains for your loved ones. But there are times when you want peace. In these cases, they try to leave all the fuss and strong emotions outside the threshold of their home. But you can have a romantic evening without leaving it. And one of the most classic options is a festive dinner.
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Room decor
When turning over ideas for a romantic evening in your head, a candlelit dinner will come to mind first. But no matter what skeptics say about the hackneyed option, it remains the most effective. Because this is not just eating food, even the most beloved and delicious. First of all, it is creating a good mood.
Everything around should evoke positive emotions. And your favorite food, table decoration, and festive clothes. It wouldn't hurt to decorate the room romantically. It is best to use the living room for dinner, but you can also have it in the kitchen. The main thing is to create the right atmosphere.
Candlelight dinner for your beloved home Source yandex.ru
You will need twilight and for this the windows are tightly curtained. And candles are placed in the corners of the room and on the festive table. Regular stearic ones will also work, but are not the focus. Only something extraordinary is placed on the table. The main thing to remember is that there should be lights in moderation. Otherwise, intimacy will be disrupted.
You can hang balloons and garlands on the walls. Any from the New Year's set will do. They will also allow you to play with light and lift your spirits. And the main attribute of the evening will be the image of a heart. This could be a beautiful poster on the wall or a box of chocolates in the shape of a loving organ.
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Be sure to add incense sticks with your favorite scent to the decor in the room. And of course music. It is recommended to create two separate playlists. A pleasant and calm melody will accompany the tasting of delicacies. And your favorite songs will allow you to dance after dinner.
Table decoration
There are plenty of decorations to help create the right mood for dinner. Usually these are little things that are pleasant for both lovers to see. Right down to the first photograph together, framed in an elegant frame and installed in a prominent place.
Romantic dinner for two, originally decorated Source vk.com
The main decorations for the festive table:
- flowers;
- candles;
- original dishes;
- rose petals.
When placing all this on the table, you need to keep one rule in mind. Nothing should interfere with the meal and communication during it. Partners must be within line of sight and their faces must not be blocked by anything. Even a gorgeous bouquet of flowers.
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Therefore, you shouldn’t buy a whole armful of them for a romantic evening. This will create disharmony. The best solution would be to decorate the table with a small and original composition. You can place one flower in several miniature vases.
Candles on the table should be unusual. At least in beautiful candlesticks. But even a banal and cheap tablet in a foil case can be turned into an exclusive item. Let it float in a low salad bowl with water. Cover with a large glass and place a small decoration on its stem.
Romantic dinner for two Source photosgrams.com
And in general, all table settings should be festive. It is better when there is not a single everyday item on the table. All ordinary dishes must be hidden until tomorrow. And the highlight of the decoration will be rose petals. They are distributed between devices. And they don’t always have to be natural. You can also buy artificial ones. After all, the main thing is to create a mood.
Selection of dishes
It must be remembered that a festive dinner is only the beginning of a romantic evening. The treat must be followed by dancing and further communication. Therefore, if you feed your partner plenty of his favorite food, then all the romance will end in sleepy digestion.
Light romantic dinner with meat and vegetables Source rebox.by
DIY gift for a guy: collage “Relationship History”
Human memory cannot store all the details of past events. How to make a gift with your own hands so that pleasant memories warm the heart of your loved one and evoke positive emotions? We propose to create a collage “History of Relationships”.
For this:
- take large-sized Whatman paper, memorable photographs and markers of different colors;
- arrange the photos in temporary order;
- Label the photo with dates, add confessions, jokes and phrases drawn from memories, support them with drawings or memorable little things (for example, your first movie tickets);
- place the finished collage in a frame;
- decorate the present with a gift ribbon.
You can leave free space on whatman paper to later add to the collage and extend the “History of Relationships.”
Photo collage “History of Relationships”: YouTube/TvoryaKa Creative Workshop
Song on radio3
If a guy has a favorite song and he really likes to listen to the radio, then you need to order music for him. You just need to call your chosen one’s favorite radio station at a time when he will definitely be listening. If at this time the guy is somewhere nearby, you can go aside and make this magical call, anticipating a lot of pleasant things.
You can order either your man’s favorite song, or a song that means something more for two. The most important thing is that the moderator on the radio must inform who the song is playing from. To do this, you need to come up with some small message to your loved one.
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If time, funds allow and there is a desire to hit the ground, then the following options will be just right.
Hotel
Rent a hotel room, order dinner at the nearest restaurant and make an appointment with him. The environment itself will do everything for you. You can decorate the apartment as you wish or leave everything as is. The most important condition is not a restaurant or a hotel, but that you will be completely without underwear and it is important to inform the man about this. If a man is interested in you, then such a provocation will not go unnoticed. Most likely, you won’t even have time to really have dinner, because he won’t be able to bear going up to the room with you.
Sex training
If you and your boyfriend are relaxed enough, you can attend special courses that teach various sexual techniques and teach you how to really please your partner. Here they will help solve frequently occurring problems for couples: lack of orgasm, premature ejaculation, etc.
DIY gifts: “Notebook of wishes”
What can a guy do with his own hands to show how precious and necessary he is? Create a “Notebook of my loved one’s wishes”, enter into it tasks that you are ready to perform for your loved one:
- take a ready-made notebook in a hard cover without signatures with tear-off sheets;
- write “Notebook of Wishes” on colored cardboard;
- Write tasks on tear-off sheets, for example: go to the movies, cook dessert, get a massage;
- Wrap the notepad in wrapping paper and decorate the gift with ribbon and a bow.
With such a gift, the beloved will be able to choose what he wants to do on a given day. You don’t have to buy a notepad, but make it yourself. Then the gift will be even more attractive and valuable.
Notebook of wishes: YouTube/IN THE PALM diy
DIY gift: “Capital”
If your lover loves to travel, give him a “Capital” gift, with which you will raise funds for a joint vacation.
Here's how to make an extraordinary DIY gift for your boyfriend:
- take a sheet of cardboard, cut out letters from it for the inscription “On a trip”;
- Apply glue to the inner surface of the letters and sprinkle with gold glitter;
- cut out circles from cardboard and stick glitter on them;
- take a plastic bucket, paint it with yellow or gold paint;
- make a hole in the lid to drop coins in, close the bucket;
- glue the inscription on the side and decorate the lid with gold circles;
- edge the junction of the lid and the bucket with braid, and glue a bow.
Such a cute gift will not only evoke positive emotions, but will also become a very practical thing that is meaningful for the couple.
Gift “Capital”: YouTube/Ksyusha Gladysheva
