Student years are considered to be the happiest period. The student is already an adult, but still does not depend on work, family, or banal everyday life. New spaces open up before him. He already has a goal in life and is trying to achieve it. Naturally, the life of a student is not only about studying at a university and completing tasks assigned by teachers. It should be full of interesting entertainment and new emotions.
How can modern students have fun outside of university? Of course, some will immediately answer that the best pastime for young people is relaxing in restaurants, cafes, and nightclubs. Cheerful companies, drinking, dancing, of course, lift your spirits, but everything should be in moderation. Regularly visiting such institutions can lead to loss of interest in the educational process. It is unlikely that a person who comes home or to a dormitory in the morning will be able to calmly wake up and go to school. How to combine business with pleasure?
Outdoor recreation
There are so many other entertainment options for young people in the world. Why not get together with friends outdoors? A picnic can be organized in the forest or near a pond. You can also travel with the whole group outside the city. Fresh air and beautiful nature inspire and saturate the body with oxygen, which is especially important during study. And delicious barbecue or juicy steaks cooked over a fire will never replace sandwiches, instant food, and other things.
If you don’t want to organize a picnic, then you can go to the sports ground. Why not take rackets and shuttlecocks and play badminton? Outdoor enthusiasts can also organize competitions. Paintball is a very popular sport among young people. Such a vacation makes the team friendly and united. It is recommended to choose it if the company is large.
Teenage orgies on the “registration”: What parents need to know so that your child doesn’t get into trouble
What parents need to know to keep your child out of trouble. Photo: Channel One and youtube.com
The very concept of “incorporation” appeared a long time ago, and it meant “the opportunity to spend the night in a foreign city with strangers.” Fit into a house or apartment for one night. But now, if you hear this word in a conversation among teenagers, then know that we are talking about something completely different. “Vpiska is a party organized by complete strangers, most often found through VKontakte groups. It is not recommended to go on this alone.” Simply put, drinking in an apartment or country house where there are no adults. Summer holidays are the busiest time for registration. Schoolchildren and students boldly go to a vacant apartment with strangers. And this became a typical pastime. Each city has its own Internet group: “Vpiski - Moscow”, “Vpiski - Yekaterinburg”, “Vpiski - Saratov”... We now often learn how such parties end from news reports in the “rape” section. Recently, State Duma deputies turned to the prosecutor's office with a request to check these communities and, possibly, ban them.
Diana Shurygina became famous throughout the country after her registration. Photo: Channel One
A SEA OF ALCOHOL AND A BETTER MOOD
Finding where and what time such parties take place is not difficult - just go online. A vigilant moderator will never add an adult to this closed online community. So, in order to get there, I had to create a wrong account.
The online community “Vpiski - Moscow” consists of 150,000 people!
Here are a couple of typical messages (we keep the spelling):
“We’re waiting for the girls, we’ll pick you up in a HUGE jeep from any area within an hour,” “Who wants to register at Rublyovka today? If you wish, please write to me in PM (personal message - Ed.)!", "Who wants to go to the cottage, area 600 sq. m (pools with slides, sauna, dance floor, jacuzzi), plenty of alcohol and the best mood. We will meet everyone at Novokosino metro station. Entrance is 1,500 rubles for guys, free for girls.”
This photo report from the party is one of the most harmless. Most pictures from online communities simply cannot be published in the media. Photo: Vk.com
“At this good hour I am Calling you to the open Party at the Sweet Potato on the Khata metro station Oktyabrskoye Pole, bring alcohol with you (and Olya).” “We have a 2-room apartment (the size of the rooms allows for a dance floor, but there is room for privacy) and a huge kitchen with a bar and hookah. You have an awesome mood, a drink and a desire to party all night.”
Parties in apartments and dachas happen almost every day. I fit into such a group and leisure is guaranteed every evening. But if in Moscow it is mainly students who go to registration, then in the regions the participants in dubious parties are high school students. 15-year-old Sveta K. from Tambov enthusiastically began to initiate me by correspondence into the world of “drunks and parties.”
- Oh, you’re 16 and you’ve never been to registration before? - the teenager is surprised. “I can’t find a single classmate of mine, no matter who attended them, unless he’s a loser or a nerd.” What else is there to do? There are three bars and two clubs in the city, and entry until 6 pm is prohibited. So everyone hangs out either in shopping centers or in apartments.
Such advertisements appear in closed groups every day. Photo: Vk.com
DON'T KEEP OUT FIRST
Sveta enlightens me that the records have their own commandments. The most important thing is not to pass out first. Otherwise everyone will mock you. Therefore, experienced partygoers drink carefully and try to refrain from consuming an unknown potion. Another unshakable rule is to never open the door to the cops. For such mistakes you will be banned everywhere, you will not get into any more parties.
It’s easy to find out what exactly happens to those who pass out first. After all, after each party it is customary to post photos and video reports. Some videos cannot be called anything other than pornography: one is sleeping, others are immediately indulging in lovemaking. Taking a selfie in front of such a couple is good luck. In 99 out of 100 cases, these frames end up on the Internet. “Make a cool video” is generally a separate attraction for the participants of the entries. Young people are trying their best.
- Oh, guys, what are you doing? - the girl squeals in a drunken voice, she definitely looks under 18. She is lying on the sofa in a bra and jeans. I don’t know what exactly her friends at the registration persuaded her to do, but obviously not that they would now cut her clothes with a huge kitchen knife. - Guys, don't! We didn't agree that way. No need!
There's loud laughter behind the scenes, and in the foreground a teenager selflessly cuts his friend's jeans. This is where the recording ends...
...A teenage boy is fast asleep. Friends start shoving a dildo into his mouth. Deeper, even deeper, until the teenager begins to gag. Everyone is laughing...
There are countless videos of drunken fights, lying on the floor, photos of apartments destroyed after parties.
The last big story happened in St. Petersburg in March 2017. The video, which was immediately dubbed “The entry was a success,” spread throughout the Internet in the blink of an eye and received several million views. The footage shows two teenagers having sex. Others pose and take pictures in front of them, one of them comments: “The registration was a success.”
As it turned out later, the girl who indulged in love games in front of everyone was only 15 years old. Thanks to the Internet, the whole school immediately learned about her adventures. Her fellow participants were not too lazy to even send the video to her parents. In a drunken stupor, under the approving cries of casual acquaintances, perhaps she was having fun. But the hangover turned out to be terrible.
And the whole country now knows the story of 16-year-old Diana Shurygina from Ulyanovsk. Diana was raped at the same registration. And there are more than one or two similar stories; it’s just that not everyone has the courage to contact the police, much less make the case public.
Heavy alcohol artillery and chorus girls. You can imagine how this fun party will end. Photo: Vk.com
DANGEROUS JOYS
And these parties don't just involve alcohol.
“Vanya and his classmates went to visit a friend in Engels,” Irina V. from Saratov told me. — He called me around 11 pm and asked me to stay. I wanted to go after him, but for some reason I thought that he was already an adult, I knew all his friends - great guys. Somehow I didn’t even worry about anything.
In the morning, the mother was woken up by police officers who reported that her son had died of a drug overdose. It turned out that there was a party at the apartment that night, someone brought drugs and offered to try it.
“Later it turned out that it was some kind of terribly toxic synthetic drug of handicraft production,” continues Irina. — It killed 4 more people in the city that night. When my son became ill at this party (seizures, confusion, convulsions and foaming at the mouth), everyone was wildly scared. They didn’t even call an ambulance right away. The doctors arrived when Vanechka was still alive, but did not have time to help him. His friends later told me that Vanya refused such a “treat” for a long time, but they still tried it, so he did too. As it turned out, this was not the first time that many schoolchildren took drugs that night. But for my son he was the first - and the last...
LAST CALL
The largest parties are planned for last bells and graduations.
“Guys, who’s ready to chip in for a cottage and not stay out all evening after the last call at home? I already have a figurehead who is ready to arrange the lease for himself. Who's in on it?
Groups are full of such recordings - young people are already preparing for important events in their lives.
“So, let’s all agree at once, everyone comes without mobile phones. Otherwise you film again, and then you won’t be able to access the Internet. And our entry will turn into a Public Party.”
Public parties are another type of this kind of party. For example, a Volga registration for the last call. This story thundered throughout Russia in May 2021. After the ceremonial events at school, the 11th graders went to celebrate the event at the camp site, where several rooms had been rented in advance. One of the girls—a quiet, excellent student—had too much alcohol and quickly passed out. They took advantage of her condition - they stripped her almost naked and painted her entire body with indecent pictures. Later the photos appeared on the Internet. The police were investigating the incident.
Another famous gang rape incident took place in Tyumen. In both cases, the parents made every effort to hush up the stories; none of the girls ever wrote a statement to the police.
By the way, many avid scribes - organizers of private parties in rented apartments - even dream of such nationwide fame. One of them, notorious in narrow circles, regularly posts videos on the Internet for public access.
“I heard that the police are interested in my films, and teachers show them in class under the heading “what not to do,” the guy begins the next video. - Well, great. Then let them also like and subscribe to my channel.
Those who switch off first will, at best, be labeled with obscene inscriptions. Photo: Vk.com
DICTIONARY "KP"
Entries are divided into several categories.
Shuffle is a boring non-alcoholic party of nerds with a very small number of people, as a rule, who like to play computer games.
Flat - (from the English flat - apartment) - a small company gathers in one apartment during the day and does one thing - for example, playing on a computer or listening to music.
Legion is one of the safest types of registration, since only good friends and acquaintances gather. As a rule, the exact number of guys and girls is selected in a ratio of 50 to 50. Many people consider the legion a boring event and are looking for something more fun.
Hustle is when so many people unfamiliar with each other gather that there is literally nowhere for an apple to fall. It is unlikely to organize a hustle in an apartment; more often they take place at dachas or in rented cottages.
A submarine is a serious event for which you prepare in advance. The owner of the hut buys cubic meters of alcohol and tons of yamka (food) and gathers a company of like-minded people. The point is that you cannot leave the “submarine” area until the party is over. These usually last from a day to three.
Vpiska is a sausage - a party where not a single girl was there.
COMMENT BY A PSYCHOLOGIST
Inoculation with fear will help
Many parents probably had their hair stand on end after reading this. We asked child psychologist Yulia Prokhorova to give advice on what to do if a child decides to hang out at the registration.
“I categorically do not recommend openly monitoring or checking your teenager’s phones and social networks,” comments Yulia Prokhorova. - This will only scare you away. Moreover, most parents are familiar with modern technology and the child can easily fool them.
Banning and locking houses is also extremely harmful. After all, the forbidden fruit is sweet. At puberty, some ideals collapse and the search for others begins. At the same time, the basic need of any teenager is to imitate someone. Therefore, the most competent, but also the most difficult, solution is to find and imperceptibly, not directly, impose on your child a new object to imitate. Let it be a football coach, a famous actor, a senior friend.
“Parents need to understand that the time when mom and dad call the shots has already passed. Now we need to build a “friend-friend” relationship. Be interested in what your child is interested in, even if it is watching stupid videos or wandering aimlessly around shopping centers. Communicate, talk. The main thing is that your relationship is trusting. And in conversations as equals, show your grown-up child the consequences of such alcohol discharges. Watch the video together. Maybe even the most terrible ones. This “inoculation with fear” will help, I give it 100%.
Organizing an excursion to another city or country
Why not go on an excursion to another country or city after completing classes? Now many companies provide this service. Students will be accompanied by an experienced guide who will tell you in detail about certain attractions. It is important to remember that such a trip should be planned in advance. To make your vacation as enjoyable as possible, you need to book a room in a hostel or hotel, hire a vehicle, and a guide. Yes, and you need to decide on the number of people planning to go on the excursion. Although many of these matters can always be entrusted to travel agency employees.
“There was talk that we would be smeared with feces at night.”
As it turned out, the newcomers had to undress during one of the competitions held by senior students.
“Everything there was optional and no one forced it, so this photo doesn’t mean anything! This is the best way the school year could start,” wrote one of the participants.
However, it soon became known that with voluntary participation, not everything is so simple.
“We began to refuse, and the senior students began to put pressure on us. At first they just tried to persuade me, saying that you are such suckers, no one will know about it. When they didn’t succeed, they began to threaten us with physical violence,” the VSE42.Ru portal quotes the words of another participant in the events. “There was talk that at night they would smear us with feces, take pictures of everything and post it on the Internet. We gave up and took off our clothes.
However, according to the same student, then the senior students said that it was just a joke and asked not to be offended by them.
A heated debate broke out between the students themselves on social networks. Some believe that there is nothing special about what happened, others are outraged and believe that the organizers of the event “framed” the university.
Cultural events
Most open air festivals take place during the warmer months. Before visiting them, you need to make a schedule. After all, a student should not only have fun, but also learn. If he didn’t fail at university, then go ahead! Participants in such events can expect loud music, vibrant performances and gatherings with friends in street cafes.
If a student is interested in art, he can visit exhibitions, theaters, and cinemas. Such a pastime will not only bring him great pleasure from what he sees, but also benefit. Arriving at the university, he will be able to share his impressions with classmates and teachers. A comprehensively developed person is always valued in a team.
And what pleasure will a fan receive from the performance of his favorite musical group or performer! If a student has free time, then he should definitely attend a concert of pop stars.
Choosing entertainment for a student
The choice of suitable entertainment depends on the character, interests, worldview and financial capabilities of the student. Some people like outdoor recreation, trips outside the city and even the country, while others like visiting sections, volunteering and household chores. And there are those students who cannot imagine their leisure time without cultural events.
To combine business with pleasure, you must follow the following rules:
- Vacations should be planned in advance. After all, education should come first. Does it make sense to skip a session for a trip to the sea? By the way, it's a good question.
- Entertainment should be useful. Yes, you can go to a nightclub, but don’t visit it every day.
- Vacations should be fun. It is unlikely that a student will be delighted with a pastime that does not evoke positive emotions.
It is also recommended to combine different types of activities. The more interests a student has, the brighter his life! Why not try yourself in something new and completely unknown? Perhaps this activity will bring pleasure and benefit.
history of the holiday
The dates Tatyana's Day and Student's Day originally came from different events. The holy martyr Tatiana was executed on January 25, 266 for refusing to renounce her faith; she was later canonized. And in 1755, on January 25, Empress Elizabeth signed a decree establishing Moscow State University, the largest Russian university. The authors of the idea were M.V. Lomonosov and Count I.I. Shuvalov. The signing of the decree was a name-day gift for Shuvalov’s mother, whose name was Tatyana. So the two holidays merged into one and acquired two official names - Tatiana’s Day and Student’s Day.
