So, the countdown to the arrival of Santa Claus has already begun, and in 2020 we are waiting more than ever for this “so-so year” to finally end and be replaced by another, which we all hope will be better than the current one.
And since mass events and celebrations are unsafe, and gathering in large groups is strongly discouraged, you may be wondering how to celebrate the New Year 2021 with your girlfriend.
Well, this can be a very romantic and very cool event, and below you will certainly find a suitable holiday option that will be unforgettable for you.
New Year with a friend
For a long time, New Year was considered a family holiday. But like any other tradition, it fades away. So why not celebrate the holiday with your best friend.
One option is to go to a nightclub. It’s best to start preparing for the holiday together at home. This way you can help your friend with makeup, give her a beautiful hairstyle, and later she will help you too.
You can also celebrate in a car, driving around the city until the morning. Shout out words of congratulations to passers-by. But you'll have to give up champagne.
If you’re not in the mood and just want to stay at home, then you can have a pajama party. Giving each other manicures, pedicures and facial masks all night long.
It is not necessary to celebrate New Year's holidays in a noisy company. You can have a great time together.
A strategy that will help involve a man in preparing for the holiday
In fact, many girls face the problem of male passivity.
That is why a strategy was created, thanks to which a man gets involved in preparations for the holiday, becomes sympathetic, attentive and caring.
The strategy consists of 3 very simple, but, as Nastya’s story showed, incredibly effective steps!
First step. Become your own magician
Stop waiting for a man or anyone on this planet to make you happy. This is the biggest mistake many women make.
We often try to shift responsibility for our happiness to men. And most often we are disappointed when we don’t get what we want.
The same thing happens on New Year's Eve.
You dream that the holiday will be magical and memorable. You really want a Christmas tree, gifts, an interesting program, delicious dishes. But instead of doing what will make you happy, you begin to expect that your boyfriend or husband will organize everything.
Following the strategy, Nastya took full responsibility upon herself.
She decided: if I want a beautiful holiday and magic, why don’t I do everything the way I want and not expect a man to do it. How I celebrate the New Year depends only on me!
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It is important to have the right attitude towards preparation.
The option where you prepare a holiday for yourself and enjoy the process is not equivalent to the one where you prepare New Year's Eve for a man, run around shopping, carry heavy bags and stand at the stove all day.
There is no need to do this!
It is important for you to live your life for yourself. The main task is to make sure that on this magical night you are in a great mood, you are sitting in a beautiful dress, there is a deliciously smelling blinking Christmas tree nearby, and your favorite dishes are on the table. Not his, but yours!
Then Nastya sat down and made a list of what it means to her to have a great New Year: the obligatory presence of herring under a fur coat and Olivier salad on the table, sweet tangerines and the film “Enjoy Your Bath.” She also indicated that she wanted a live Christmas tree decorated in blue and silver. And a lot of twinkling garlands.
And Santa Claus should put under the Christmas tree a gift of chocolates and a set of decorative cosmetics that you have been wanting to buy for so long.
Next, all that remained was to implement all the points to make the holiday a success and the atmosphere to correspond to the ideal New Year.
By the way, what does it mean for you to have a great New Year? What attributes do you need to feel happy this night?
Second step. Sending a request to the Universe
State your desire.
Further, according to the strategy, Nastya needed to set a clear intention that she would celebrate the New Year not just well, but better than anyone else! That this holiday will bring her only positive emotions, joy and pleasure.
Nastya made the intention that this New Year she would be with her beloved. I wrote down this request and forgot about it.
By the way, modern women often suffer from over-importance syndrome. If you, too, are always afraid that nothing will work out when you do something, use this advice.
Put the written intention in a distant drawer and try not to think about it. Instead, make it a point to prepare to celebrate the new year at home alone. Think about using these magical hours for the benefit of your loved one. For example, during the chiming clock, make a ritual of fulfilling wishes for the New Year.
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Nastya decided that on New Year’s Eve she would ask the Universe for happiness in her personal life with a certain wonderful guy. Abstract person.
After all, this boyfriend of hers hasn’t offered her anything yet. And he behaves strangely, so there is no need to bet on him. There are plenty of guys in the world. With the help of the power of thought, you can attract the ideal, the best and the most loving.
Nastya continued to communicate with her boyfriend, but acted as if she was happy without him. It suddenly became full and harmonious.
Third step. Enjoy preparing for the new year!
Enjoy! Enjoy preparing for the holiday, even if the man is still in a “wait and see” position.
Nastya was looking for a gift for her beloved, and chose the most beautiful palette, mascara, and brushes. She enjoyed the process of preparing for the holiday, savoring every minute. After all, everything she did was for her own sake, and not to please someone else.
Nastya decided that cosmetics would be a magical gift from Santa Claus. She wrapped the gifts for her beloved in beautiful golden paper and decorated them with a large red bow.
Over the weekend, they went to choose a fluffy Christmas tree, and when the guy called her, she said that she was very busy.
An hour later he called again and was perplexed, why was she so happy? As a result, he offered to come on Sunday and help her dress up the tree and decorate the apartment for the New Year.
Nastya was so busy with her preparations that she even forgot about this agreement. But he came and even brought tinsel.
When the girl was running around the Christmas tree and laughing with delight and New Year's mood, the young man grabbed her in his arms and began to kiss...
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And you already know what happened next! It was the most romantic New Year of her life. But everything could have been the same if she started preparing a holiday for him or threw a tantrum...
To be happy, you sometimes need to become very selfish
How to celebrate the New Year 2021 depends only on you. All in your hands. And even if things don’t work out the way you planned so far, you can fix it.
I suggest you do something right now that will bring you back into a wonderful New Year's mood. Watch your favorite movie, take a walk through a beautifully decorated park, go shopping in search of a dress or festive tinsel.
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Think about yourself. And let the husband or boyfriend sit on a chair in front of the TV and pretend that he is not interested. Believe me, the strategy works. And the twinkle in your eyes and your beaming smile will not leave him indifferent!
Just follow the strategy and follow 3 simple rules:
1. Prepare a holiday exclusively for yourself!
Do everything the way you like without asking your man's opinion.
Let him know that you intend to have a blast and that you are not inviting him along.
For the sake of decency, you can ask him where he will be for the New Year, and when you wait for the answer that “oh, this is not a holiday for me, I don’t know”
, say:
“oh, well, ok, but for me this is the most important holiday of the year, I adore the New Year, so I decided to celebrate it according to my own scenario.”
And then let go of the situation.
2. Don't expect him to act.
Let it not matter to you whether he calls you or not, does something or sits on the sofa.
But you don't need to think that he is bad.
Try to assess the situation objectively and repeat to yourself: “He is a wonderful man, but this holiday is not important for him, so I will celebrate it myself. After all, it’s important to me that all my New Year’s wishes come true next year, so it’s important for me to be as happy as possible on this night.”
3. Make yourself happy
Immerse yourself in cute New Year's preparations. Make the last days of December childishly happy. It's in your hands!
Believe in miracles, and then everything will become possible for you!
Do you think you will be able to overcome the insult and prepare a holiday for your loved one? Enjoy the New Year like a child? Would you like to truly enjoy the holiday, even if you have to spend it without your loved one?
Share in the comments how you decided to celebrate the New Year.
In a sanatorium or hotel
And for those who do not want to stay at home or in a country house, you can celebrate the New Year in a sanatorium, hotel or cruise. But it’s unlikely that you’ll be able to meet him together. Most likely, you will have to celebrate it with other guests and fellow travelers, or lock yourself in your room before midnight and celebrate the holiday alone. But New Year's preparations will not take much time. You and your loved one just need to pack your things and buy tickets. This option is suitable for couples in love who love noisy companies, are not afraid of experiments and do not like to sit at home! New experiences can bring any couple closer and bring completely different emotions into the relationship.
Dream trip
Some people prefer to go to hot countries on New Year’s Eve and celebrate the holiday under palm trees, while others prefer to plunge into the European atmosphere of Christmas. But not everyone has the opportunity to leave. You can make your dream trip happen in your city. Google the services provided.
Surely a ride in a horse-drawn carriage is on the list. Dress up in 19th-century ladies' and gentlemen's costumes (available for rent). Let them ride you all night long to the most beautiful places. Instead of a carriage, you can rent a limousine and drive through the streets at night, drinking pink champagne with strawberries. Along the route, you can plan a stop at an observation deck and from there look at the city lying at your feet.
New Year's Eve outside the home
For those who love to travel, you can go on a New Year's cruise. This way you can not only celebrate the holiday, but also see many new and interesting places. To meet new people. But there is one drawback - the road. Being on the road all the time, fatigue sets in quite quickly, and there is a chance that you will not get full pleasure from the cruise.
Those who love warm winters can fly to any sunny beach or island. Places like Goa or the Maldives are sunny and fun all year round. When you fly to the sea, don’t forget about the change in climate and time zone. The body will get used to it for some time. But these are pitiful trifles compared to the emotions received during the entire vacation.
New experiences will expand your horizons, drive away depression and raise your self-esteem. The body will be enriched with vitamin D, and interest in life will return. Ultimately, your health will improve and your immunity will increase.
Those who like to look at various ancient sights of the city are better off going to Europe.
Countries like Italy or France will welcome you with open arms. Don’t forget to consider all the options for where to go abroad for the New Year together.
Lovers who want to spend a holiday surrounded by a small crowd of people can book a table in a restaurant or nightclub. You will be able to meet new people and learn a lot of new things. A huge plus is that you don't have to cook a lot of food and end up cleaning the whole house.
Everything is already included in the program and all you have to do is enjoy it. This option is suitable for those who spend all their time at work and are released in the evening.
