If the relationship has already reached the official stage and everything is very serious for you, then this does not mean at all that you need to forget about all those pleasant little things that happened during the candy-bouquet period.
On the contrary, it is worth learning something new so that your feelings do not lose their novelty. And if you don’t know how to please your girlfriend and surprise her so that she will be grateful to you, then there are some wonderful ideas that you can follow.
Something simple but meaningful
These little things should be done by every young man who would like to show the depth of his feelings. They will cost absolutely nothing, but will make a huge impression on her.
- Leave notes with nice phrases in the most unexpected places. Let her be sure how much you love her;
- Prepare food for her at work so she thinks about you during her lunch break;
- Hold her hand, especially in public places;
- Touch her arms or shoulders. Touch is as important as intimacy;
- Set her photo as your mobile phone wallpaper;
- Tell her that you were thinking about her while you were apart;
- Give her compliments. She should always know that you consider her the most beautiful;
- Play with her pets;
- Spend time with her family. These are the people closest to her;
- Let her choose your clothes;
- Hug her;
- Kiss her hands or forehead. Such seemingly small tenderness can show your deep affection;
- Bring her water during the hot part of the day or tea in the evening;
If she's stressed2
It’s hard for everyone, everyone experiences problems. What to do if your other half feels bad:
- Run her a bath with essential oils and bubbles and let her relax a little;
- Give her a massage;
- Massage her feet;
- Comb her hair;
- Do her homework for her. Show her how much you appreciate her;
- Take her for a walk in the park;
- Take her to the spa;
- Listen to her, let her tell you about her problems or just how her day went;
- Let her have her own space. Everyone sometimes wants to be alone;
- Teach her to meditate;
- Take a nap together;
- Buy her a sex toy;
How to surprise a girl with pleasant words
Surprise the girl with words of love. Are you not used to talking about your feelings, do it rarely, or have you not confessed to her at all yet? So make them boldly and noticeably! Example: write on the pavement, hang signs along her path, shout under the windows. The methods are often shown in the movies, but not everyone was the hero of such confessions - leave the girl with an unforgettable experience, so she can become the heroine of a romantic film.
You can surprise a girl with words in a different way - by writing them on paper. Option: email, SMS, social networks. A more interesting option: a letter on a piece of paper, handwritten. A romantic way, impressive in its simplicity and diligence. Writing a letter by hand nowadays requires more mental and physical effort than the electronic version. Place the letter discreetly in her purse, leave it on the table, on the bed - depending on the circumstances.
You can also surprise someone personally with pleasant words. Never liked this “vanilla”? Perhaps this is what the chosen one lacks - step over yourself, please the girl with frank, beautiful confessions. Talk about what you really feel - especially if you do it infrequently.
Romantic things3
Want to show your girlfriend that romantic feelings are still alive? This is very easy to do.
- Buy her flowers just because, and not for any reason. Simply because you consider her the best and most beloved;
- Book a table at a good restaurant;
- Prepare a romantic dinner;
- Watch a romantic movie with her;
- Write her a poem or song. If you don’t have such talents, then you can simply borrow something from the classics and perform it for her;
- Constantly tell her how beautiful she is;
- Draw her portrait (if you have talent, of course);
- Come up with an affectionate nickname for her;
- Feed her strawberries;
- Light the candles;
- Scatter rose petals in the bedroom;
- Book a room for two at the hotel;
DIY gift ideas
A gift made with one's own hand is often cheaper, but is always more valuable. It’s much easier to go to the store and buy a ready-made item. It’s another matter when a person gives a handmade work into which he has invested his soul, time, talent, and imagination. The result is something not just original, but special.
#1. Portrait made from natural materials
A portrait of your beloved in a minimalist style will win the heart of a girl who has a keen sense of art. The main secret of his charm lies in the individual style of the amateur artist. To create a picture, use sea shells, pebbles, flowers, twigs - everything that is found in nature and will help express your love.
#2. Saucers with affirmations
A dozen saucers with positive affirmations are the best decoration for the room of a girl prone to blues. Affirmations can be written with acrylic paints (black, pink, gold or silver) and varnished for durability. You can add your own to the generally accepted set of mantras (harmony, inspiration, gratitude, prosperity).
#3. Art panel
Choose a few colored wax crayons to create a masterpiece that will delight your dreamy girl. Melted crayons with a hairdryer will create “streams of rain”, under which a photo or image of a couple of lovers under an umbrella will look impressive.
#4. Jewelry holder
All you need to make this elegant and useful item is eight wooden blocks and one strong mesh. The created frame of the holder can be painted in the girl’s favorite color.
#5. Homemade cookies
Bake shaped chocolate cookies and place them in a beautiful assorted chocolate box. This, of course, will require a lot of effort (Google to the rescue!), but it will delight the chosen one who understands confectionery recipes.
#6. Flower pots
By decorating flower pots, you will enliven a girl's room. Any available materials will be useful for this: baskets, plastic bottles, shells, wood, leather, cardboard. Fantasy, inspiration, a sense of style and a little humor will help you create elegant and atmospheric flowerpots.
#7. Super fashionable scarf
A stylish accessory made from several old T-shirts with bright prints will delight the true fashionista. It is sewn like a patchwork quilt. To make the pieces of fabric uniform and neat, use a stencil.
#8. Stylish box
Transforming a standard box into a unique work of art requires not only skillful hands, but also an artistic concept. Use buttons, beads, guipure, candy wrappers, postcards, photos as decoration. The main thing is that the result is stylish and not kitschy. Such a gift can become the keeper of all girlish secrets.
#9. Openwork candles
You can make stunning candles using purchased black lace and regular glasses. The creative process is extremely simple: a glass, on which glue has been previously applied, is carefully wrapped in lace. When the glue dries, you can put the candle in the glass - the gift is ready!
#10. Case for a mug
You can knit the cover for the mug in a couple of evenings, having taken several lessons from your sister or grandmother the day before. With such a gift, your girlfriend will be able to drink scalding tea, feeling like your words “I will warm you!” pour on the soul like a balm.
What can I write to her?4
Nobody notices such things at all, but they play a huge role in maintaining relationships.
- Wish her good night and good morning;
- Write to her what you like about her;
- Ask her questions to learn as much as possible about her and become closer;
- Playfully tease her;
- Tell her jokes;
- Send her corny pick-up lines to laugh together;
- Send emoticons, stickers and funny pictures;
- Play 20 questions;
- Organize a date, even if you have been dating for a long time;
- Write after the date that you had a great time;
- Send her dirty sexy texts;
Just like that for no reason5
And this is what will arouse tender feelings in her and convince her that you are not only an incorrigible romantic, but also that she cannot find a more attentive and caring guy.
- Surprise a girl by buying tickets to a concert of her favorite artist;
- Prepare her favorite food;
- Bring something sweet;
- Make a cup of coffee just like that, even if she didn’t ask for it;
- Go on a picnic with her;
- Buy her new pajamas;
- Organize a party for her;
- Go with her to the place where you first saw each other;
- Give her a scrapbook with little things that connect you: concert tickets, photos from parties;
- Dance with her. Don't even wait to go to a club, just turn on the music and dance;
- Take a photo of her;
- Get an animal together. What else can show that you are ready for shared responsibility?
How to impress a girl in bed
Are you ready to impress a girl in bed? To do this you need a little knowledge and a desire to please the girl.
Options
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- Use new positions
- offer the girl something you haven’t tried. Offer to study the Kama Sutra together, putting into practice a pose that you both liked. - Learn a new caressing technique
. Many experienced lovers compare the female body to a musical instrument that requires tuning. The “tools” are different, they all have their own erogenous zones - your task is to find them. You can do this with the help of erotic massage. - Stretch out the foreplay
. Many men do not pay as much attention to this as their partner would like. Take your time with affection - give it generously and thoroughly. However, it is also undesirable to delay it too much. - Try using sex toys
or initiating role-playing games - they can bring a lot of vivid sensations to the intimate life of any couple. However, do not offer anything that might shock the girl - start with easy options.
Social networks and other joys6
The Internet helps not only to search for information and buy products, but also to maintain and maintain relationships.
- Watch movies together;
- Like and comment on her post on social media;
- Create a social media post about it;
- Send her things you think she'll like;
- Create a music list just for her;
- Take the online survey together and compare the results;
- Create a joint photo album;
- Send her a Snapchat.
