What gifts should you not give?
You should refrain from the following gifts:
- medicines, medical equipment;
- personal hygiene items;
- ties - for men from women;
- dishes, kitchen utensils (except housewarming gifts);
- underwear (it can only be given to spouses and lovers);
- animals without prior agreement with the hero of the occasion;
- used items;
- things that can be interpreted ambiguously - deer antlers for married couples, any paintings and figurines with a sad and gloomy plot.
It is considered a bad omen to give scarves, artificial flowers, or sharp objects. It is worth considering this if the hosts of the holiday are superstitious.
Words to my husband
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Dear and faithful husband, I congratulate you on your holiday! Thank you for taking my hand one day and never letting go. I’m used to standing behind your back, knowing that no gust of fate or trouble will make you turn away from your intended goal. It is for this that I am eternally grateful to you and swear eternal fidelity!
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Is it possible to find such a second man under the blue sky? No, there is no such thing anymore, and perhaps there won’t be for a long time. Beloved, you combine the main qualities - tenderness and brutality, strength and soulfulness. I wish you all the best, and the main thing is not to deviate from the intended course. Together, we will overcome everything and become the happiest!
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Kitten, a ray of bright sunshine, accept a gift from us and listen to our wishes. Our friendly family exists thanks to you! You always manage to find the right words to nip the conflict in the bud. Our children look at you with love and respect, and this is worth a lot. Even if there is torrential downpour or severe frost outside the windows, it doesn’t matter to me. The most important thing is to see you, hear your voice, feel your breath.
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My only, beloved, dear husband, I congratulate you on your holiday! On this wonderful day, I want to wish you patience. Unfortunately, I know that sometimes I can be too impulsive, and this leads to disagreements. However, your wisdom is enough to prevent the conflict from escalating. I know that I was lucky to draw a lucky ticket in the lottery of life, for which I will always be grateful to you. Love you!
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There are two words that I can repeat endlessly - I love you! I feel very good and calm with you. I can't imagine a time when you weren't around. However, now I am the happiest woman on earth and I’m ready to shout about it! Once again - I love you!
What to give to children
Before buying something for a child, you should consult with his parents to clarify his tastes and preferences with them. Good gift options are soft toys, construction sets, figurines and sets with your favorite characters from films, games, and animated series.
When choosing a surprise for older children, you should pay attention to items and sets for creativity, electronics, and books. It is not recommended to give children clothes, stationery, or household items: they will not be able to appreciate such a gift and enjoy it.
Is it possible not to accept
In some cases, a gift can be refused.
You can reject a gift if it:
- so expensive and valuable that the recipient will feel like a debtor;
- is an attempt at flirtation in which the hero of the occasion is not interested;
- presented with the goal of asking for forgiveness or a truce, but the person does not want to forgive or make peace;
- is inappropriate and can be interpreted ambiguously.
If the gift is not just not liked, but directly insults and upsets the recipient, he has every right to refuse it. This is not considered indecent if you do not dramatize what is happening and do not involve other guests in the process. You need to refuse politely, after thanking and explaining the reason.
Original comic congratulations on the wedding with the presentation of cool gifts
Congratulatory 1: Not all the gifts were presented, We were able to hide them a little, Now, of course, we will hand them over, And the first one will be a spoon for you!
(Takes out a large wooden spoon)
Congratulatory person 1: I’ll tell you about the gift, It’s practical in everyday life, in the kitchen, It’s not replaceable in the household, Yes, in principle, just like in personal life!
(Hits his hand with a spoon)
Congratulations 2: Congratulations to you once again, Now I will say from the bottom of my heart, Let there be a strong family, May you live in love and together!
Congratulatory 2: And I give this to you now, So that they stick to each other, So that your light doesn’t go out, Or maybe glue the dishes together!
Congratulatory person 3: And I have a gift for the bride, I prepared the most beautiful outfit, So stylish, very fashionable, Well, you can just show it off!
Congratulatory person 3: And there is also one for the groom, a most useful gift, so that the little wife smiles, and so that there is understanding!
(Presents the manual “Family Life for Dummies”)
This gift requires preparation. You need to take an old book, make an appropriate cover for it and paste in sheets of advice. List of tips: 1. To make your wife scream less, you need to help around the house. Where you threw one sock, throw the second one. 2. Give compliments more often. 2 times a week is just right, otherwise you’ll get spoiled. 3. Don't breathe, don't talk, don't exist when she's having those days. Just go fishing. 4. Remember, the key to family well-being is trust. Don't read her correspondence, and don't let her read yours. 5. Don't forget about the budget. Her salary is her money, yours is the family budget. 6. Don’t even think about looking at other women in her presence. Remember, she is one and only. Watch when he turns away. 7. There is no such thing as hot and raw! And this is not porridge in a pan, but soup! 8. Under no circumstances should you think about talking about being overweight. Hint, lace underwear is a few sizes too small. 9. Her mother is the most holy person on earth! (Memorize this rule). 10. Don’t forget about spending time together. Cleaning up together is equivalent to going to the gym together. Text options may be different. If you still choose this gift option, you need to ask the groom to read all the points out loud. Print one item per page in large font. If you don’t want to give such a gift, you can give the Kama Sutra)
What to give to friends and colleagues
When choosing a gift for a friend, you need to take into account his interests, hobbies, and personal preferences. Giving money is considered impolite (unless the person himself has asked for it): it will be considered inattention and unwillingness to spend effort on choosing a gift.
Popular offering options:
- souvenirs;
- books;
- items related to friends’ interests and hobbies;
- handmade;
- jewelry and bijouterie;
- gadgets, electronics;
- interior items;
- flowers;
- sweets, alcohol.
It is not necessary to give surprises and try to take your friends by surprise with a good gift. If you have doubts about the need for this or that thing, do not hesitate to ask about it directly.
Gifts to colleagues must comply with the rules of business etiquette. You should refuse expensive or valuable gifts: they may be misinterpreted. Gifts for corporate events are often presented by the entire team. If you have friends at work and want to congratulate them separately, this should be done privately, without attracting the attention of other business colleagues.
Words to a girl, woman
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Today is a holiday in the house of a beautiful woman, a faithful wife, a caring mother and a wonderful housewife. We can continue ad infinitum, however, it will not be possible to list all the positive qualities. Therefore, I wish you one thing – peace. When your soul is calm, then whatever you undertake, everything will be done easily. Happy birthday!
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When presenting a memorable gift to a charming woman, I will say a few words of gratitude. Our day becomes brighter when you walk through the door, problems evaporate from your warmth, and our mood instantly improves. I thank the universe for introducing us one day! I wish you happiness and simple female happiness!
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I want to wish you the fulfillment of all your desires. Thanks to you, it’s always spring outside the windows, when you walk down the street, every living thing turns to look after you. Let luck and prosperity become constant companions, and you will go together all the way to the end. Happy holiday again!
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Dear birthday girl, look into the eyes of each guest, what do you see? I see only love and adoration! Each of us has our own reason to confess our endless love, loyalty and devotion to you. Thank you for keeping a spark of hope alive in every heart, perhaps this is the most valuable gift you give us every day. Accept gifts from us, and most importantly remember - the most important surprise is our love for you!
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Dear girl, congratulations on your holiday! I ask you to accept this gift, but it is just a soulless thing that cannot reflect the depth of my feelings. From the first day we met, I was imbued with a feeling of deep respect for you. Before, I couldn’t imagine how a strong personality could live in such a beautiful and fragile body. I am very proud to know such a charming, smart, strong girl. Happy holiday!
What to give to close relatives
Etiquette allows you to give almost any gifts to close relatives. These can be household appliances or furniture, decorative items and souvenirs, things for hobbies and recreation, and vouchers. When buying expensive gifts (for example, a sofa or refrigerator), it is worth clarifying the wishes and preferences of relatives.
It is considered indecent to present kitchen utensils for the holidays. You should also not give clothes, shoes, cosmetics and perfumes without knowing the person’s size and personal preferences.
Words to the doctor
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We would like to congratulate a wonderful person from the bottom of our hearts! An open soul, a kind heart, great deeds - this is only a small part of your characteristics. We wish you to bring your professional activity to perfection, and for this you will need steely health, strong nerves and prosperity in life. May everything be fine with you!
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You are a hero of our time! Every day you accomplish a feat, saving people’s lives. It is impossible to express in words all the gratitude and appreciation for your dedicated work. May your path be easy and difficulties avoided. Be healthy, happy, success in your personal and work life!
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I would like to congratulate a happy birthday to a man who every day proves that you need to live not for yourself, but for others! Gratitude for your work will be in the eyes of the people you saved, which means you gave them the opportunity to enjoy a new day. I would like to wish that the rays of this joy fill your heart, and you see what an important work you are doing. Thank you for everything!
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Becoming a doctor is only half the battle, the main thing is to become a good doctor. It is precisely such a doctor that we congratulate today and wish him all the best! You have become not just a doctor who treats the body, but a professional who also restores the soul. For each patient, you manage to find such an approach that the person recovers with great strides. You can't learn this, you had to be born with it. Be happy and healthy!
Basic rules of gift etiquette
A gift is a sign of attention and respect, which directly shows the attitude of the giver towards the recipient. Therefore, its selection and presentation must be treated thoughtfully and responsibly.
Knowing the basic rules of gift etiquette will help you do this:
- Gifts for birthdays and other personal occasions should be intended only for the hero of the occasion. It is considered impolite to give things for public use.
- It is indecent to give gifts after the holiday. If you can’t do this on time, it’s best to hand them over before the celebration.
- The gift needs to be beautifully packaged - wrapped in foil, wrapped with a ribbon. Homemade boxes and bags are more valuable than custom or purchased ones, but they must be of high quality.
- It is indecent to give an offering at the door or in the corridor. This should be done in the festive hall, where other guests can watch the ceremony.
- Before presenting a souvenir or decorative item, you must remove all receipts, price tags and related documentation from it. You should not do this with household appliances and electronics, as this may cause problems with warranty repairs and service.
- You cannot re-gift gifts received.
- Each gift must be selected individually, taking into account the desires, hobbies and character traits of the other person. It is impolite to hand over something old and unnecessary from your own belongings.
You need to be careful when handing over money. This may look like a sop or an attempt to humiliate. But sometimes such a gift can be presented - for example, if the hero of the occasion is not well known to the giver or if he knows that the person is collecting money for a trip or an expensive purchase and will be glad to receive it. When giving banknotes, you should pack them in a beautiful envelope or make a money bouquet.
A good alternative to money is a gift certificate to the favorite store of the host of the holiday. Such a gift leaves him a choice, while at the same time showing that the giver paid attention to his tastes and preferences.
