500 cool questions to ask a girl

The more attractive the girl, the more difficult it is to surprise her with anything. They didn't give her any kind of compliments. What kind of pick-up phrases did she hear? What should I tell her? How to attract her attention and stand out from the gray mass of her admirers?

You need to learn how to skillfully conduct dialogue. Give her interesting topics for conversation, ask questions that she would like to answer.

She should be interested in you. During the conversation, you should find common ground, and a note should appear in her head next to your name: “Not an idiot. We continue checking. So far the results are satisfactory.”

Start the conversation with one of the questions below. Don’t remain silent, actively participate in the dialogue, but let the girl take on the role of speaker.

Are you ready for the big game?

Then we begin!

Questions to start a conversation

Where did you grow up?
What is more important to you: appearance or intelligence?
What moment in your life will you never forget?

What is your idea of a perfect weekend?
Are you superstitious?
What can lift your mood almost instantly?
Are you an introvert or an extrovert?
What's your favorite day of the year?
If you only had a week to live, what would you do?
How do you prefer to spend your weekends: at home or going somewhere?
Name one thing without which you cannot imagine your life.
What would you do if you were the last person on Earth?
What word do you hate?
Would you prefer a holiday in the mountains or at the sea?
What will you choose: love or money?
If you could invite five people to dinner, living or dead, who would you invite?
What was the last thing you dreamed about?
If you could start a music group, what kind of group would it be?
Imagine it's your 75th birthday. How do you imagine him?
What would you do if you found yourself in Russia in the 20s of the last century?

What situation initially seemed terrible to you, but in the end turned out to be a win for you?
What's your favorite word?
If you could choose a decade to grow up in, what would you choose?
What was the first concert you attended in your life?
If you could live in any city on Earth, what city would it be?
The stupidest thing you've ever spent money on.
Could you go a whole day without your phone?
If you were an alcoholic, what kind would you be?
What one thing would you take with you to a desert island?
If you didn't have to work, what would you do with your life?

Questions to make a girl smile2

Do you think people singing in the shower can save the world?
When was the last time you laughed heartily?
Do you know any magic tricks?
What's your favorite joke?

What funny nickname would you give to your child?
What's your favorite place to play hide and seek?
What's your favorite classic comedy?
Name the most embarrassing thing you've ever bought?
Do you remember any funny dream you had recently?
What's the craziest trick guys have used to get to know you?
What's your favorite place to travel?
Do you think baldness is sexy?
If you became a man for one day, what would you do?
If you were a vegetable, what kind would you be and why?
If your life were a movie, what genre do you think it would be?
What is your spirit animal?
Do you believe in aliens?
What cuisine do you prefer? European or Asian?
What dish would you call your favorite?
Name your happiest childhood memory.
You're a night owl or an early bird?
Who is your favorite musical artist?
Do you believe in astrology?

What's your superhero name?
What superpower would you like to have?
Which foreign word seems funniest to you?
What taste do you associate yourself with?
What does your nickname mean on social networks?
Would you like to see me again next week?
What fantasy world would you like to be in?

Questions to get to know her better3

What do you do in your free time?
If you could live anywhere on the planet, where would you choose?
What's your favorite ice cream flavor?
Do you prefer cats or dogs?
Would you like to go horseback riding if given the opportunity?
Do you prefer beef or chicken burgers?
What's your lucky number?
Do you have a favorite memory from school?

What's the first curse word that comes to your mind when someone is rude to you?
What is one thing you would change about yourself?
What is the most special gift you have ever received?
If you had to eat the same food for the rest of your life, what would it be?
Pizza or rolls? Or both?
What's your favorite movie?
If you had an endless supply of cash, what would you spend it on?
What quality do you value most in people?
Do you feel happier in a big city or in a village?
When you're in a bad mood, is it better to leave you alone or do you wait for someone to cheer you up?
If you could become the best in only one field, what would you choose?
If you could go back in time and give yourself advice, what would you tell yourself?

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It turns out that the widely held belief that women have a unique ability to ask stupid questions is wrong. It is men, as studies have shown, that this is more common. They do this more unconsciously than on purpose. Their only desire is to receive important information, but sometimes it is formulated so comically that you don’t even immediately understand what exactly they mean. Well, this is how they manage to do it! Experts conducted research to identify “strange” questions with which the stronger sex sometimes puts women in an awkward position, and this is what they got:

1. Why do girls single out all sorts of idiots?

In the correct interpretation, it will sound: what attracts girls to guys?

Do men themselves also use this method to choose a girl? At the very least, it sounds disrespectful to the fairer sex that they choose a mate based on only one parameter. But even the most inconspicuous girl identifies several criteria by which she chooses her chosen one. Each of them, of course, has their own. Some value more the outer shell of a representative of the stronger sex, while for others this is not important at all, and she looks at what he has inside, what values are present in his life, what qualities he possesses, and so on.

There's a lot more to this than just being a "jerk." No one denies that extraordinary young men are popular with girls, but whatever one may say, there must be something else behind this.

2. What does the girl mean when she says “...”?

Correctly interpreted, it should sound like “what did you mean when you said...?”

The fact is that girls tend to say vague phrases that talk about everything and nothing at the same time. For example, when a girl says that she is supposedly not ready for a serious relationship, they can be interpreted in different ways. Someone will understand this as a categorical refusal, which leaves him no chance. Perhaps she is just being disingenuous and in fact she wants a serious relationship, but she does not see it with this particular young man. It is possible that some simply do not want to burden themselves with any obligations to their partner; they are completely satisfied with only purely platonic relationships.

That's how many options are hidden behind just one phrase thrown by a flirty girl. But how can you determine which one applies specifically to you? There is only one way out - ask the girl directly. Unfortunately, no specialist in female psychology can help you with this.

3. Why do girls beg for compliments by saying they are fat?

In the correct interpretation, the question sounds: how much does the extra pounds bother this girl?

The first thing that comes to mind when you hear this question is that the girl simply wants to once again bathe in compliments and attention to herself, knowing full well that weight has nothing to do with it. Perhaps, but, as a rule, this is the case; the weaker sex is always concerned about the issue of extra pounds. This is especially acute in adolescence, when they are most self-critical.

Of course, women don't spend all their time with these gloomy thoughts about their fatness, but from time to time it really upsets them. But here, again, a lot depends on the internal state, what she is wearing, what kind of makeup is done and what kind of hairstyle.

4. Why do women keep silent about what really happened?

Correct question: Why is talking pointless in this situation?

Very often you can hear from men about fatigue from the endless complaints from his girlfriend, that she is tired of her whining, that she no longer has the strength to listen to it. Or maybe it's something completely different. The fact is that they remain never listened to, never understood, although they share their experiences with the young man. Therefore, when a man asks this kind of question, the girl simply does not see any point in talking about her experiences.

Typically, this occurs in several traditional situations:

“The act that the young man committed is so terrible that there is no need to explain anything here, everything is obvious.” But sometimes this obviousness, in the opinion of women, is not at all obvious to men, and with their questions they try to get to the bottom of the truth, and women perceive this as an outright mockery of themselves.

— It is not uncommon for situations when, after living together for some time, a woman has the feeling that she made a mistake in her choice, and this is not at all the person with whom she would like to walk through life. All this is a consequence of a complete misunderstanding of each other, unwillingness to hear and take into account the opinion of your other half. All the complaints expressed against a man never reach his consciousness in the form in which his woman wants to see them.

Therefore, having stumbled more than once upon this impenetrable wall of misunderstanding, the desire to talk and explain something disappears.

“Women tend to invent whole stories for themselves and sometimes even think in advance how a young man will behave in a particular case. And when they don't actually get that reaction, they get very upset. For example, a man didn’t notice that his girlfriend got a new haircut and she herself had to draw his attention to it in order to get at least some compliments. And, of course, they sound, but it is quite difficult to believe in their sincerity. Well, talk somehow after that too.

5. Why do girls use cosmetics, sometimes excessively, if we prefer natural beauty?

The correct interpretation is: is it true that they do this for the sake of men?

It’s stupid to hold a grudge against men because they sometimes don’t notice what their chosen one is wearing and don’t compliment her about it. These are the kind of men they are, what can you do about it. The main thing is not to indulge yourself with unnecessary illusions about how he will admire your taste and so on. This is completely useless, because anyway, the new dress will only come into view of some other woman, and only she will be able to appreciate how good your taste is. In any glossy magazine you can find a lot of information on how to become more attractive, and every girl strives for this, because she doesn’t want to be like everyone else. That’s why they take care of themselves, and this doesn’t happen for men at all, it’s just how it’s supposed to be.

In addition, cosmetics are a good option to hide some flaws in your appearance or, conversely, highlight the most striking features of your face. All this is done on the way to approaching the ideal, and not from an excess of free time.

6. Why do men have to pursue women, but all they do is choose?

The correct interpretation of the question looks like this: why do I pay attention exclusively to those girls who themselves make their choice in the direction of this or that boyfriend?

This is such a misconception about women that you can’t even wrap your head around it. Look around, open your eyes, and you will see a huge number of girls who will not mind making new acquaintances. These are the girls who simply behave modestly, do not dress too flashy and do not use tons of makeup to attract the attention of the next young man.

Personal questions4

Name the happiest memory from your childhood.
Tell me about the worst date of your life.

What's your weirdest habit?
Have you ever broken someone's heart?
How do you behave with people who irritate you for no apparent reason?
Do you say “yes” or “no” more often?
What is the main reason that makes you get up in the morning?
What motivates and inspires you?
What things would you like to forget?
What do you regret most in this life?
Who couldn't you live without?
What is your main goal in life at the moment?
Is there anything you can say with 100% certainty that you will never do?
If you were a stereotype, what would it be?
What character trait do you consider to be your best?
What's the worst advice you've ever been given in your life?
Do you like adventure or do you prefer routine?
Can you tell us about the closest and most trusting relationship you have ever had?
What are you most afraid of?
What do you like to do more than anything in the world?

Romantic questions5

Which love story that actually happened do you think is the best?
What do you think the best romantic trip looks like?

What nickname would you affectionately call me?
What do you think the perfect romantic gift should look like?
What was it about me that first attracted you?
What did you think of me when you saw me for the first time?
Do you prefer a good hug or a good kiss?
What does your ideal date look like?
What makes you happiest in a relationship?
Name your favorite romantic song.
Would you like a big, luxurious wedding or a small and modest one?
How did you feel when we first kissed?
What is your idea of a perfect honeymoon?
Tell me what you find attractive? Just let it be something you haven’t told anyone about yet.
Which kisses do you like more: passionate or tender?
Guess what I like most about you.
How do you prefer a guy to show his feelings?
Do you like hearing how beautiful you are?
In a relationship, do you value conversations or sex more?
What was the most romantic date you were taken on?

Questions about what she likes7

What's your favorite way to spend a day off?
What's your favorite genre of music?
Tell us about the best vacation of your life?
What's next on your list of must-see places?
Tell me about your hobbies.
What age is your favorite?
What's the last thing you read?
Do you prefer to communicate with introverts or extroverts?
Name your favorite ice cream topping.
Which TV series have you been watching lately that has got you hooked?

Do you like listening to podcasts?
Do you have a favorite holiday? Which?
Do you prefer watching movies at home or going to the cinema?
What position do you like to sleep in?
How do you prefer to spend your summer?
What's your favorite quote from a book, movie or TV show?
How old were you when you first had a celebrity crush? And who was it?
What's guaranteed to make your day better?
What's your favorite day of the week?
Do you prefer reading books or watching movies?
Do you prefer breakfast, lunch or dinner?
As a child, did you eat bread crusts on sandwiches or ask them to be cut off?
What calms you down?
What is your favorite time of year and why?
What app do you use most often?
Would you rather cook the food yourself or order delivery?
Do you like board games?
What kind of coffee do you prefer?

If you could have any exotic animal, which one would you choose?
Your perfect way to spend your birthday.

Why do you dream about fishing and how to build a garage: what “male” issues are of interest to Russian women

While men are figuring out where babies come from and how to do makeup, women are interested in their topics. Yandex specialists analyzed the requests and found out that the fair sex is also no stranger to football, fishing and garage work.

Football

Football has long been considered the main passion of men. But women are also trying to understand the rules of this sport. In this topic, users most often looked for the answer to the question: “ how many teams are leaving the group .” This request scored 100 points in Yandex. The more often they searched for this or that thing, the higher the score the experts gave.

In second place with 55 points was the question of how many halves there are in football . Women were also interested in what a handicap is in betting (40 points). The question “ what is offside ” received a little less, 26 points. Some users decided to start with the basics and figure out how to play football (10 points).

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Hockey

The game of real men - maybe that’s why women are so eager to understand the rules of hockey. In this category, the most common question was: “ how many periods are there in hockey ?” The second place among the queries was taken by the search for information about what overtime is (19 points). The question “ what is a shootout ” received only five points. Women were also interested in what offsides and playoffs are in hockey. These queries received three points each.

Garage

Which male car enthusiast doesn’t like to spend time in the garage, tinkering with the car or chatting with friends? But women are no less interested in this topic, just from a slightly different perspective. Users learned how to sell a garage (100 points). Then there was the question of registering it as property (66 points).

about how to enter the garage at the race track : the request received 53 points. There were also needlewomen who found out on the Internet how to quickly and cheaply build a garage . What’s important is that this request included the phrase “with your own hands” (50 points). The top five was rounded out by storing wheels on disks (23 points).

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Automobile

There are plenty of women drivers, but not everyone can look under the hood and fix something. The fair sex did not ask about spare parts, but were interested in other things. So, the most popular request was: “ how to charge the battery .” Then the girls learned how to find out who the car is registered to (87 points).

On the third line is the question about registration with the traffic police and registration (60 points). There were also newfangled car sharing (60 points) and leasing (58 points). Women found out on the Internet what it was.

Fishing

Almost every woman knows how to cook semolina porridge, but not everyone knows how to cook it for fishing. The question about preparing pearl barley, semolina and peas for fish was in first place among the topics about fishing. Women do not stop being themselves even in such a “male” question, so the second most popular question is: “ why do you dream about fishing ” (45 points).

how to breed worms at home , but less so. This query scored 13 points. Questions about what a feeder is and which echo sounder is best for fishing from a boat earned seven points.

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Repair

Who said that nailing shelves is not a woman's job? Users think the other way around and read where to start repairing (100 points). received 40 points less . There was also a phrase: “ how to renovate an apartment cheaply and beautifully .” The experts gave her 40 points.

With 13 points, fourth place was taken by the request for the cost of repairs , and dreams again closed the top five with 11 points. The women wanted to know why they dreamed of such alterations in the apartment.

Drill

If repair is a broad topic, then the drill deserves special attention. The point is clear - the instrument is complex. Most women do not know the difference between a drill and a hammer drill. Next comes the question of how to remove the chuck from this tool (97 points). Inserting a drill into a drill also turned out to be a difficult task without the Network (54 points).

The fourth place in the ranking was taken by the question of prices for drills (46 points). Someone decided not to look for a hammer drill and find out how to drill a concrete wall with a regular drill (29 points).

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Bath

The topic of the bathhouse was also not without requests about dreams. The question of why such a steam room is dreamed of has become the most popular. Women also asked when they should prepare brooms (97 points). We also learned about the construction of a bathhouse . This item scored 61 points.

The next question is: “ how to steam properly ” (53 points). Rounding out the top 5 is the girls' interest in what stones are best to choose for a bath.

Shashlik

Women masterfully wield whisks and pots in the kitchen, creating delicious dishes. But men are still considered the best at cooking barbecue. Despite this, users learned how to marinate meat. This question received the maximum number of points. The second is a recipe for cooking shish kebab in the oven (12 points).

In third place was the question of which meat is better to choose (8 points). After it, women were interested in how to grill shish kebab (7 points) and where it can be done in Moscow (6 points).

At the end of February, Yandex conducted the same study, but for men. It turned out that they would learn on the Internet where children come from, how to paint themselves and make flowers out of paper.

Career questions8

What do you enjoy most about your current job?
What irritates you about her?
What achievements in your career are you most proud of?
Do you think you will stay at your job for a long time or not? And why?
Are you one of those who “work to live” or “live to work”?
Does your job make you feel happy?
How would your ten-year-old self react to what you're doing now?
What do you remember most about your first job?
How old were you when you first went to work?
Name the worst job you've ever had.
What initially interested you in your current profession?

Have you ever had a part-time job?
What's your favorite part of the workday?
What's the best decision you've ever made in your career?
What job advice would you give to a younger version of yourself?
How do you differentiate between your work and home life?
Are you waiting for retirement or are you going to work as long as possible?
What do you think about workaholics?
Do you have a best friend at work?
How do you motivate yourself at work?
What surprised you most when you first started your career path?
How do you collect your thoughts again after making a mistake?
What does your family think of your work?
Who influenced your career choice the most?
If you could change everything, would you choose your current job again?

Questions about dreams4

Do you want children? How many children do you want?
What life values do you think should be instilled in children first?
Would you like to learn how to ride a horse?
What unusual food or drink would you like to try?
How do you feel about extreme sports?
Would you like to bungee jump?
Would you like to live in a village?
What is your most unusual vacation?
Do you want to visit the mountains?
Would you like to climb Everest?
Which tropical island would you like to go to?
Would you like to celebrate New Year in Lapland?
Do you want to go on a trip to India?
Would you like to visit Antarctica?
Have you ever wanted to indulge in unbridled revelry?
Would you like to see a real Spanish bullfight?
Or maybe you would like to run with the bulls through the streets of Pamplona?
Do you have a favorite superhero?
What toys were your favorite?
Do you have any children's toys left?
Would you like to attend the premiere of a film or play?

What historical era would you like to live in?
Would you like to visit the future?
What historical secret would you like to know?
Would you like to go back to your childhood?
At what age would you like to remain permanently?
What kind of wedding do you dream of: a magnificent one or a modest one?
Which of your habits do you consider the strangest?
Would you like to live forever?
What emoticons do you use most often?
Do you have a wish list?
Do you like to recite poetry?
Do you like reading aloud?
Would you like to go on a real hound hunt?

Questions about family9

How much time do you spend with your family?
Who in your family do you most enjoy spending time with?

Are you close to your family?
Who in your family are you closest to?
How would you describe your family now?
What's your favorite family tradition?
Have you ever wished you were raised differently?
Have you ever hidden anything from your parents or lied to them?
Would you like to have more brothers/sisters?
If you started a family business, what would it be?
Does your family have affectionate nicknames for each other?
What is the most important holiday in your family?
What would surprise your family the most if they found out about you?
How do you deal with family disputes?
What is more important to you: family or friends?

Questions about childhood2

What was your biggest fear as a child?
What was your favorite food as a child? What's your favorite dish right now?
What was your favorite treat as a child?
Did you want to change your name as a child? If so, what would you like to be called?
Did you want to have a little brother or sister as a child?
Did you have a favorite lesson at school?
What affectionate name did your parents call you?
Have you ever been to a children's summer camp?
At what age did you start asking to use the potty?
What is your best childhood memory?
What's your worst childhood memory?
How did your parents punish you?

Did your parents often punish you?
Did your parents inspire more fear or love?
Did they sing lullabies to you?
How many toys did you have?
Have you often broken toys?
Was there a toy that you dreamed of, but you never bought it?
Do you still have your childhood toys?
Do you remember your first D grade at school?
Did you like your first teacher?
Was T often capricious at the table?
As a child, which parent was more loving?
Did you have a friend in childhood whom you wanted to follow as an example?
At what age did you learn to read and write?
Did you cry often as a child?
As a child, which adult did you trust the most?
In childhood, did you feel the support of your family, or did they just evaluate and condemn?
Did you want to turn into some kind of animal as a child? In which?
What kind of superhero did you want to become?
What pets did you have? What were their names?
Have you ever had to skip classes?
Have you always told your parents the truth?
Did you have to clean up your school diary?
Who was your favorite Star Wars character?
What were your favorite cartoons?
Have you often been put in a corner?
Did your parents always punish you fairly?

Were you forced to participate in the sports section? Music school?
Have you ever broken a window with a ball?
Did you have a fear of the dark as a child?
Have you ever binged on candy or other treats to the point where your stomach started to hurt?
Have you ever stolen raspberries or apples?
“A terrible secret”: have you ever had to tear off the wings of flies or butterflies?
What was the funniest promise you made to your parents?
Were you afraid of Babayka? Did they scare you with Babayka?
What do you want to become when you grow up?
Have you ever climbed trees?
Who was your sworn enemy?
Who was your best friend?
What was your biggest school mischief?
Have you ever wanted to run away from home?
What are your earliest memories?
Did you study well at school?
Were you a good boy (girl) or a bully?
What's the best birthday you've ever had?
Did your parents organize children's parties for you?
Have you had a lavish birthday celebration?