3 18187 July 25, 2021 at 12:39 Author of the publication: Ksenia Voitkovskaya, doctor
When you receive an invitation to a reunion of alumni, classmates 25 years later, at first you rejoice at the opportunity of the meeting - such a wonderful opportunity to meet people you have not seen for many years, find out how your school or university friends are doing, and remember joyful moments. But then you are overcome by doubts - is it worth going? Surely others have already achieved a lot in life: many have families, children, some have advanced in their careers, some have gone to live abroad. In general, everyone is doing well. And you?
It can be different - different meeting scenarios. 20 years later, the former graduates have matured and a lot has changed. For example, you still don’t have a family. You never made a career. This is how you live: work - home, work - home. Even if you have achieved something, your achievements seem insignificant to you. You are prone to constant self-examination and self-criticism: “I could have done better, but it didn’t turn out well enough.”
And some of my classmates, after these 20 years, are still not interested in conversations at the level of kitchen gatherings. And the scenario of the meeting will be completely different. Such people want to discuss something global and significant, and not diapers, diapers and a vacation by the sea. They were always lonely among their classmates, they were bored with them, and little has changed in 20 years...
Different people have different reasons why they don't want to go to a high school reunion. Let's, with the help of System-Vector Psychology by Yuri Burlan, figure out what these reasons are and try to look at the evening of the alumni meeting in a new way. Whether 20 or 25 years have passed is not important.
For whom the alumni meeting is a difficult task?
System-vector psychology explains that there are people who are much more comfortable alone, alone with their own thoughts, than among other people. She defines them as owners of a sound vector.
Unlike other people, for whom social success, career, material well-being, family and children are important, all this is of no interest to sound people: they have different values. They consciously or unconsciously seek the answer to the question of the meaning of life, about why they came into this world. And if they don’t find it, then they are prone to depression, to withdraw into themselves, into their own thoughts and states. 25 years later they are still the same, they are not interested in the alumni meeting.
When they are busy with their own thoughts, they don't really care about other people. In such states they are self-centered. It seems to them that there are only idiots around, that other people will not understand them. People with the sound vector are focused on abstract, abstract concepts, which is why they often go into science, engage in philosophy, languages, programming, mathematics, physics or other fields of knowledge. This is how they strive to realize their high intellectual potential, abstract thinking, with the help of which they can create new concepts, theories and teachings.
However, being carried away by mental work, such people often remain loners, not feeling the need to build connections with other people. They may have few friends. It happens that the sound engineer doesn’t even have anyone to talk to.
Among other people, a sound artist who does not know how to fulfill his sound desires feels uncomfortable. When addressed, he needs time to come out of the state of internal concentration and answer the question. Therefore, sound people often do not immediately respond when spoken to - they simply need a pause to extrovert and think about how to respond.
The sound guy cares little about his body. He often wears the same clothes for a long time, because he doesn’t care what to wear, he never chases fashion.
A reunion is an event where, willy-nilly, you have to communicate with others and look good. For a sound engineer this is stressful. In addition, this is an event where everyone is noisy, talking loudly, joking, and the sound engineer does not tolerate loud sounds well: he has very sensitive hearing.
And so you either have to smile forcefully to try to be like everyone else, or sit on the sidelines and feel like an outcast. 10 or 25 years have passed, but even these years later the sound artist does not feel like “he belongs” at a meeting of matured classmates.
Congratulations and poems for the reunion 20 years later
20 years have passed and we have not changed. Everyone parted as if it were yesterday. Even though our souls were striving for each other, we barely got out of business. Dear, sweet, family, May everything in life work out for you, Don’t get lost, we are not strangers, I wish that the light of friendship does not go out!
We broke up 20 years ago. How did they seem to you? Has it really been 20 years? What a moment! No matter how the years rush by, We would smile at each other, Treasure every day that we will spend everything together. We will wait for a new meeting and hug each other.
Well, guys, our release is already 20 years old. I can’t even believe that so many years have passed since we were young children inspired by hope. I admire all of you with joy, I still remember our teachers with delight and kind words, I often plunge into the world of school memories, exciting changes and interesting lessons. And let us, no matter how our lives develop further, let us not forget about each other; according to our tradition, let us meet every year as a friendly class and share our victories, achievements, and experiences. I want to wish everyone good luck and love, health and 20 dreams come true until our next meeting.
More congratulations in prose →
20 years are like 20 days, they flew by quickly. You and I have all become adults, respectable. I wish you not to lose touch, everyone to stay together. Great success to everyone, Don't stand still.
Everyone carefully preserves the school years, And a big magnet pulls everyone to meet the friendly class. That magnet is called “memory”, and you can’t lose it. We want to meet our friends and hug them tight. Even though twenty years have passed since the farewell call, But having fun is a joy - It’s all in our hands!
This date is twenty years! Oh, honestly, I can’t believe it! In honor of this date, our banquet, We could not help but meet! Today we will discuss what our life is full of, and remember with nostalgia the Old Times! Today there will be many phrases: “Do you remember this?” After all, we have so much in common, Moments full of light! At the end of my speech, I ask you to raise your glasses, Thank you all for the meeting, I missed you so much!
The last bells rang twenty years ago. During this time we managed to see everything in life! Let the best years await us all ahead, And may trouble not come to our home, But may happiness knock! Let your dreams come true, Let all your plans and hopes, Let your thoughts be young, Let your eyes shine as before! We have matured, and now we have experience behind us, But I wish everyone on this day to live with bold dreams!
Long time no see friends, A huge hello to everyone! We have changed a little over these 20 years. We remember cheerfully about school times. Let's be happy in ordinary little things!
20 years have flown by like a bird. And today we met again. Familiar faces have changed, like those in the photos of graduates. Life has made its own adjustments to our childhood plans, and so, I wish you: be happy and always look only forward. May love and hope and faith be with you always and everywhere. And we will prove our friendship in practice, We will not leave each other in trouble. We will all meet together more often, we will call each other more often, we will all communicate closer, we will all be friends together again.
Twenty years have already passed since that solemn time, How we said goodbye to school, Having thrown off the status of children. These years have flown by Productively, no doubt, We have matured noticeably, We have gained authority. But today, with inspiration, we will remember the school and proudly report all our achievements!
Two decades of crazy years have passed like a day, Remember how weird we were, How lazy we were to study. Let's remember the golden time At this wonderful meeting, Let's plunge into our youth We are on this priceless evening.
Successful person or failure?
But for some people, it is someone else’s success 20 years later that can become the reason for their reluctance to meet classmates. The worst scenario for a high school reunion for him is to meet a more accomplished classmate. System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan classifies people for whom career, success, high financial and social status are important as owners of the skin vector.
Such people have a keen sense of time. Their day is scheduled literally by the hour and minute. They take on several things at once, just to get more done. The leather workers do everything quickly. This way they save time - the main resource of their life. They are truly capable of achieving a lot in life if their properties are correctly developed in childhood and then realized in the right way.
If the child’s ambitions, the desire to be first, the tendency to compete were suppressed, and he was humiliated verbally, then he develops a scenario for failure. The fact is that the skin vector gives its owner special adaptability to environmental conditions, including pain. He learns to experience pleasure from humiliation, and therefore in adult life such a person, although he consciously strives for success, unconsciously finds a way to become a loser. This is how he gets his little pleasure.
Such a person comes to an alumni meeting and envy everyone: “Look, others are doing well, but I’m not.” Successful classmates at the meeting are like a painful thorn; in 20 years they have “fulfilled themselves.” Years later, the leather worker feels like a loser compared to them.
There is also another possible reason for a person’s reluctance to meet with classmates. Such a person tends to consider everything from the standpoint of benefit and benefit, including connections between people. And if such a friendly meeting and maintaining communication with its participants does not imply tangible benefits for him, he can easily refuse it. This is not the person who carefully preserves the memory of old friends.
Excellent student and best specialist
A person with an anal vector, on the contrary, loves old friends very much, remembers the past with pleasure and is happy about the evening of the reunion of graduates after 20 years have flown by. However, doubts, dissatisfaction with himself, and shyness can make him refuse to meet with classmates. As a rule, such states are characteristic of him in the absence of realization of his properties in life.
People with the anal vector are the best professionals in their field, thorough and thoughtful. They study any problem for a long time and comprehensively before starting to solve it. At the same time, they are somewhat slow, but very diligent in learning. Such people were most likely excellent students at school. Especially with the anal-visual combination of vectors.
System-vector psychology of Yuri Burlan says that the natural role of a person with an anal vector is the accumulation, generalization and transmission of information to next generations. Such people often become teachers, they make good doctors, writers, scientists, experts in their field, because they have analytical thinking and the ability to notice the smallest details that make up the whole. This ability allows you to notice and eliminate any error.
However, it is precisely a person with the anal vector who finds it difficult to make decisions and tends to doubt. He often questions his own achievements. It is he who is prone to self-criticism; it always seems to him that he is not doing his job well enough, that he could have done better. On the one hand, the desire for perfectionism pushes him to develop, learn and become the best professional, the most experienced, the most knowledgeable, but on the other hand, it is a source of constant internal dissatisfaction with himself.
A person with the anal vector can doubt anything, including whether to go to a graduate meeting or not to go. He will immediately find a bunch of excuses for himself not to go. A lot of urgent matters will come up that have been accumulating for years, but it is on the day of the alumni meeting, 25 years later, that he suddenly decides to urgently deal with these matters. And he will indeed find very compelling arguments and a solid reason not to go to the alumni meeting.
The whole point is that for a person with an anal vector, especially with an anal-visual ligament of vectors, it is important what other people think about him, how he looks in the eyes of other people. Innate fear in the anal vector is the fear of disgrace. When such a person does not sufficiently realize his qualities, he feels self-doubt and is afraid to say or do something wrong. He is usually shy and shy in large groups of people, so a high school reunion can be a real test for his self-esteem, especially if he feels that he has not realized himself sufficiently as a professional.
Congratulations and wishes for the alumni meeting 20 years later in prose
Well, guys, our release is already 20 years old. I can’t even believe that so many years have passed since we were young children inspired by hope. I admire all of you with joy, I still remember our teachers with delight and kind words, I often plunge into the world of school memories, exciting changes and interesting lessons. And let us, no matter how our lives develop further, let us not forget about each other; according to our tradition, let us meet every year as a friendly class and share our victories, achievements, and experiences. I want to wish everyone good luck and love, health and 20 dreams come true until our next meeting.
I can't believe it's been twenty years since we graduated from high school! And it’s so wonderful that today we have gathered together to remember the most fun, significant and simply memorable moments for us! I am filled with joy because I see you again and can discuss any topic, just like I did at school! Thank you for the meeting, dear classmates!
Our graduation is 20 years old today, and I congratulate everyone on this date! Let the wonderful moments of school life, moments of delight and joy of joint victories often emerge in the memory of each of us. I want to wish everyone health and good luck in all their endeavors, as well as real pride in their achievements and in the achievements of their comrades. Let's not forget each other, let's not spare kind words for our teachers, let's meet more often. I wish everyone happiness and frequent reasons to smile.
Happy anniversary to us, friends! May the years only be for our benefit. Love, health, good luck and success in life to everyone. I wish that every home has comfort and joy. Long and happy years of life to you, may, as before, time not burden you, but only inspire you to conquer new heights!
My dears, 20 years ago we had our graduation, 20 years ago we were young and in love. Now each of us is self-sufficient and finally an adult. I wish everyone a wonderful mood, successful activities, great achievements, fulfillment of desires, sincere feelings and complete happiness in life.
Dear friends! It gives me great happiness to see my favorite faces again. A whole 20 years have passed, but it seems like we broke up just yesterday. I wish everyone that our friendship will be as strong as many years ago. Let the thread between our hearts not break, and everyone knows that he will always find love and support from his classmates. I wish everyone health, interesting work and simple human happiness.
20 years have flown by, we met and remembered the old times. I wish that this meeting will not be the last, that every year we will meet, remember our youth and rejoice at our victories in the present. Happy graduation day!
Congratulations on our 20th anniversary! Much water has passed under the bridge, but we are still together. They are also young and full of optimism, having reached heights and gained experience, realized themselves and are looking for themselves. I wish everyone a great mood, joy from communicating with old friends and acquaintances, smiles and fun!
Twenty years have flown by like a school lesson and it’s very nice to see you again. The same enthusiasm in your eyes and the same familiar smiles. I am very happy that the years have not made us forget our school friendship. I want time not to leave sad imprints on your faces. Let only the best things happen in your life. And most importantly, health, strength and patience for new achievements. Good luck to you, dear ones!
Happy Homecoming Day, guys. So 20 years have flown by since we were graduates of this school. Now we are adults with our own life principles and positions. It's very great that we met again today. I want to wish everyone good luck and prosperity in life. Thank you to these walls, naked teachers, for the kind lessons, for the important words and faithful support. Don’t forget each other, often remember your first ups, likes, experiences and joys from your school days. Be happy friends.
