Casket
A presentable option would be a beautiful box in which you can put a whole list or individual items written on pieces of colored paper. If it is not possible to purchase a finished product, use a candy box.
Prepare in advance:
- box;
- scissors;
- colored paper;
- lace shelf;
- artificial flowers;
- glue.
First, you need to remove the molds that contained the candies from the box. The inside of the box should be covered with colored paper. You should carefully measure the box and cut out rectangles of the appropriate size, and then carefully glue them to the bottom of the box.
Place a list of reasons inside and close the box, securing it with tape. Its surface must be covered with colored paper; to do this, be sure to choose your mother’s favorite color.
The strip of lace must be secured vertically, tying the ends, like a gift bow. You need to thread small inflorescences through the holes in the fabric, this will make the packaging sophisticated and delicate.
Awareness of my problems saved me from loneliness
This nonsense could have continued for years until I saw a psychologist. How many tears, hatred, resentments, during two years of the hardest internal work I experienced in my soul. And then it became easier, I no longer sobbed bitterly, reading my “unsent letters” to my mother.
Everything settled down and my life began to improve. I am still far from a complete recovery, but I cut the umbilical cord, despite terrible pain and resistance.
Let's see what will happen next. Maybe the parade of generations will stop with me and my children will not have problems with their mother. Because I know exactly how difficult and painful it will be to get rid of them in the future.
Relationship with adult daughter
The beauty of such a relationship is that it is easier for an adult daughter to understand her mother’s desire to do the best for her. Sometimes excessive care is annoying, but the daughter tolerates it and does not express dissatisfaction for the sake of preserving the relationship.
Advice for mothers who want to maintain a strong relationship with their adult daughter:
- remember that the girl has grown up and cannot be re-educated. Accept your child for who he is;
- support her choice and do not scold her for her mistakes;
- Give advice in a difficult situation, but don’t push. She must make the final choice herself;
- Do not express dissatisfaction with your significant other. If your daughter is happy, she made the right choice;
- do not meddle in raising your grandchildren, but help if your daughter asks for it;
- arrange warm family evenings;
- be interested in your daughter’s opinion, ask her for advice.
For a mother, if she gave her daughter the best years of her life, denying herself, it is difficult to follow these rules. But she will have to if she wants to maintain her relationship with her child.
Negative influence of a dead mother
The death of a person does not affect the improvement of the condition of her children, because these curses remain in their minds and do not cease to operate for a minute.
You also need to get rid of them. There is a special ritual that will help cope with the remaining negativity. Take a bowl of water and pour in the pre-melted wax. When pouring wax, repeat the following:
On wax
- This is a kind of prayer that must be repeated 3 times. Make a small child of your gender out of wax and leave it until it hardens.
- Then you should come to the cemetery where your mother is buried and bury the figurine on the grave. While saying:
Need to make a wax figurine
- After finishing the ritual, you need to go to church and light a candle for the repose of your mother. It depends on your faith and honesty whether you will be forgiven or not.
- On every mother’s birthday, go to her grave and bring her her favorite sweets and cookies. And repeat every time:
From son to mother
Playful confessions
61. ...you yawn erotically. 62. ...you can talk. 63. ...you walk straight. 64. ...you don't fight like Chuck Norris. 65. ...you don’t have a nose like Pinocchio, otherwise it would prevent us from kissing. 66. ...you are not a genius, otherwise I would have to feel like a stupid person. 67. ...your voice is not nasty. 68. ...your culinary delights have not yet poisoned me. 69. ...thanks to you, I am no longer my other half. 70. ...you don't suck money out of my wallet like a vacuum cleaner. 71. ...you do not suffer from sleepwalking. 72. ...you are not making any serious attempts to kill me. I hope this is not only because of criminal liability. 73. ...I don’t know all your skeletons in your closet. 74. ...we have common secrets that cannot be told to anyone in order to avoid someone’s death. 75. ...you weigh less than an elephant. 76. ...when I think about the wedding, I don’t want to run away far and for a long time. 77. ...my brain is still not blown. 78. ...I have no choice. 79. ...you are a witch (sorcerer) and you bewitched me. 80. ...together we can conquer the world.
Third wheel
Another area in which disagreements arise with parents is the choice of a partner. Mothers very often do not like the passions of their children. It’s not for nothing that there are so many jokes and tales about an evil mother-in-law and an unbearable mother-in-law. Love really often blinds people. And we may not see what mom sees.
When I was at school, my desk neighbor fell in love with a girl from a parallel class. The girl was sociable and attractive. The boy's mother was categorically against it. She forbade them to meet, locked her son at home, and punished him. As a result, I transferred him to another school. But all this did not prevent the young couple from getting married at the age of eighteen, secretly from their parents.
How to make a gift
There can be many reasons to express your feelings - a birthday, parents’ wedding anniversary, Valentine’s Day, March 8th, well, a surprise for no reason is even more appreciated.
It’s easy to make a gift “100 reasons why I love my mother” with your own hands. This gift will not require any expenses or great talents.
The simplest option is a jar. On each sticker sheet we write (or print) one reason in beautiful handwriting, roll it up and tie it beautifully with thread or thin ribbon. We put all the confessions into a beautiful jar of suitable size, which can be given a gift look by decorating it with ribbon, lace, pictures, hearts, flowers, and photographs.
The box-box looks even more presentable. You can pick up a ready-made box, for example, for sweets, and cover it with beautiful paper or fabric, decorating it with lace, cord, rhinestones, and beads.
A book or notepad is another popular way to design “100 Reasons Why I Love My Mom.” The easiest way is to use a ready-made notebook or a beautiful notebook, decorating the cover and filling the pages with confessions. If you are familiar with the basics of scrapbooking, you can create an original book from scratch, designing the cover and each leaf separately, and then connect everything together with ribbon, rings or other devices. Ideas for decorating the gift book “100 Reasons Why I Love Mom” with your own hands - in the photo.
Postcard or poster. If you value your time and are familiar with computer graphics, you can draw a large and beautiful card with confessions in Photoshop, and then additionally decorate it to your taste with any decorative elements. As an alternative, a sheet of Whatman paper or other paper of suitable size and density, paint, markers and other tools that you know how to work with. We draw a poster by hand.
The idea with balloons is beautiful, but quite expensive, although it is not necessary to make a bouquet of 100 balloons - you can write 10 reasons, or place several notes in one balloon. It looks impressive, of course, and the intrigue remains - if it’s a shame to destroy the ball, you won’t immediately know what’s inside.
For those with a sweet tooth (mothers love desserts no less than we do, even though they are used to pampering us), you can complement your confession with a box of chocolates. Choose a beautiful box of chocolate and complement it with colorful scrolls - both tasty and pleasant.
A letter in a beautiful large envelope may be an option if the mother lives in another city and there is no way to present the gift in person. A postal envelope will be a pleasant surprise for her, because we have long been unaccustomed to this method of communication.
A gift bag will come in handy in case there is absolutely no time to decorate. We print it out, cut it up, put all the notes in it and solemnly hand it over. You can choose any other colorful packaging.
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Career question
Misunderstanding on your mother's part may relate to your line of work or your hobby. This mainly lies in the desire of your parents to provide you with a comfortable life. Mom wants to never experience a lack of money in her life. Thanks to this, professions such as economist and business process management have become popular. It seems that there is always a lot of money in these areas.
But the creative direction almost immediately goes into the trash bin. You can't make a living dancing. No one will buy your drawings. Your songs will eventually lead you to the tavern. Parents believe that only talented supergeniuses can make money through creativity. I won’t argue, people with some talent achieve some success. But it’s exactly the same in technical professions.
Success in one business or another does not depend on the direction. It depends on perseverance, hard work, and development. How many famous top managers do you know? I bet it's no more than a dozen. Why? Because in this area, as in creativity, great efforts must be made.
Thus, if your mother does not understand the choice of profession, first try to explain to her what you like about the profession, what fascinated you, why you chose this particular direction. Tell us about people who have achieved success in this. Share your plans and development path. Don't be offended if your mother still doesn't understand you. Grievances do not unite people, but vice versa. Don't hold it against your parents for misunderstanding.
