By the 17th year of marriage, the spouses can wipe the metaphysical sweat from their foreheads and admire what they have done in tandem, nostalgic for the old days. After all, they have already come a long way, going through love, anger, suffering, quarrels, misunderstandings, various life difficulties, care and affection. Everyone would like to consume this divine porridge that they brewed on their wedding day.
Such dates, according to statistics, are celebrated by no more than 50% of married couples. And those who were able to reach this mark are now unlikely to be separated, because during this time they have become intertwined into a single whole.
What is the anniversary called?
Two interesting facts are associated with the milestone of 17 years from the date of marriage.
First of all, the anniversary has two names: tin and pink. Both meanings have a certain meaning. Tin is a flexible metal and is often used to connect parts together. The spouses, like two puzzles, are truly united by a marriage vow and can no longer live without each other. However, the years lived together make themselves felt, and the flexibility of tin means that spouses need to meet each other halfway more often, that is, to be more pliable and flexible in order to maintain the relationship for a very long time.
As for the beautiful rose, this symbolism is inherent in the 17th anniversary of marriage for a reason. This flower is associated with tenderness and passion, beauty and the danger of sharp thorns. Likewise, in the relationship of a married couple there should be both tenderness towards each other and the manifestation of passion in strong, long-term love. Of course, sometimes problems and disagreements may arise before family happiness, like thorns on which this happiness can get hurt, but we must not forget what connected the spouses together and what they value and love in each other.
That is why it would be best to celebrate the 17th wedding anniversary together, in a romantic setting. For example, in a restaurant or at home by candlelight and always with a bouquet of beautiful roses on the table.
Secondly, pewter or pink is also the 10th wedding anniversary. The cardinal difference lies in how these two identically named anniversaries are celebrated: the 10th anniversary is celebrated magnificently, in the presence of many guests, and the 17th anniversary is celebrated either in a narrow family circle , or just the two of them, in a romantic setting.
Festive table for the anniversary
Usually there is no grand celebration; the anniversary is celebrated in a small circle. Regardless of where the table will be set, in a restaurant, cafe or at home, everything is decorated in pink. Bottles with alcoholic drinks and cups are decorated. Lay out a pink tablecloth or lay out napkins. An integral part of the decor are bouquets of flowers. If desired, make a photo zone, an arch of balloons and flowers.
To fully correspond to the holiday, the wife puts on a pink outfit; the husband can have a shirt, T-shirt, bow tie or tie of this color. The dress code does not apply to guests, but you can choose appropriate outfits to create a festive atmosphere.
What wedding
17 years of marriage is called a tin wedding. Tin is malleable and flexible. By the 17th year of marriage, the spouses had already learned to be softer, accept each other’s shortcomings and take them into account, avoiding sharp corners in conflicts. Another property of tin is its ability to hold different parts together. Consequently, the tin period of marriage can be designated as complete fusion.
Also the 17th wedding anniversary is called pink. There are two versions explaining this name.
- The first is associated with the color pink - the embodiment of affection and tenderness. After many years of marriage, feelings cease to be as passionate as at the beginning of their life together. They become softer, more careful, and caring.
- According to the second version, the pink wedding got its name in honor of the beautiful flower - the rose. Her nobility is combined with the risk of getting hurt on sharp thorns. If the plant is treated with care, it will delight you with luxurious blooms and a delicate aroma. There is an allegory in this: if not handled carefully, marriage relationships can cause pain and be seriously tested. For them to bring joy after 17 years of marriage, every effort is required.
Gifts for family
Anything that can bring joy to each member of the family will be an excellent memorable gift for this anniversary.
- A pink car for everyone is the ideal solution if funds allow. And if you already have a car, you can order seat covers for it in this color.
- A wonderful gift is a trip to Bulgaria together at the end of May or early June, when the rose festival is held and you can see the vast pink fields with your own eyes, take part in collecting petals and just have a great time at the beginning of the season on the Black Sea coast.
- A luxurious bedding set is a must-have item in every home. It will never be superfluous.
bed linen set with roses
How to celebrate
Celebration options may vary. Since a tin wedding is not a big date, it is not at all necessary to celebrate it in a banquet hall in a noisy company. It is better to celebrate this event together.
You can spend your seventeenth anniversary in a romantic setting. Prepare a relaxing bath with pink rose buds or scatter flower petals in your shared bedroom. Place candles everywhere and light an aroma lamp. All this will create a pleasant atmosphere.
Rose petals in the bedroom will create a romantic atmosphere.
It is ideal if older children are involved in organizing the celebration. Order tin rings, prepare a festive table with delicious dishes and dessert. The table setting must include pink.
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Universal gifts
You can give not only things that fit the theme of the holiday, but also more practical things.
- A great idea is a new apartment renovation, if it’s for a family. You can make one room themed and pink.
- A holiday at the seaside at any time of the year will be a great occasion to celebrate this day, especially since the children are already grown up and if you want to make a romantic trip, you can leave them at home with their grandparents.
- Going to a water park, a trip to Disneyland, bowling, etc. is a great pastime.
Gift for husband
You can give your husband a variety of items as a gift on his 17th wedding anniversary. Try to surprise your spouse with something unusual.
- A set of tin soldiers or a pink piggy bank for a joint budget is a great gift for a person with a sense of humor.
- Pewter cufflinks, leather goods in wine red shades. Such a gift will correspond to the theme of the celebration and will suit a business man.
- Clothes and accessories . A stylish striped or checkered shirt with a splash of pink will go perfectly with jeans. You can also choose a dark T-shirt with a pink lettering.
- A gentleman's set of exquisite cheese, olives and dry rose wine.
- Bright red car seat covers . Wrap the gift in pink paper and tie it with a ribbon: let him worry while he unpacks the gift.
It's equally nice to find a love note in your pocket. Pamper your man: give him a massage with rose oil or cook his favorite dish. You can organize a joint trip to the SPA salon.
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