Beautiful parables are always listened to with special pleasure and awe at a wedding banquet. They are instructive stories with deep meaning. For many peoples, a parable toast is a mandatory attribute at a banquet.
It is pronounced, as a rule, by adults and wise people. They share their wisdom with special prudence. It is always pleasant and interesting to listen to stories, because there is no falsehood in them. They are full of lightness and airiness. These are not just words, these are fairy tales that are taken very seriously and carefully by every guest.
Parable of the Three Young Men
When telling this parable at a wedding banquet, after making a speech, you can invite the newlyweds to express their guesses about the reason for choosing the girl.
“Three young men fell in love with one beauty. And everyone thought about how to win her heart. The first one took a pearl from the bottom of the sea and gave it to her. “Choose me,” he said. “You see how brave I am.” The second gave the girl the skin of the lion he had killed and said: “You see how brave and strong I am. Choose me".
And the third young man wandered for a long time through the fields and forests in search of something that could surprise the girl. And then he came across beautiful flowers. He presented a bouquet to his beloved with the words: “When I saw these flowers, I remembered you, but even they cannot compare with your beauty and grace.”
The girl chose the third young man because he was the only one who thought not about himself, but about her. Dear newlyweds, never forget about each other!”
A story about a flower and life in a family after the wedding
The confessed woman complained to the priest that her life with her husband was boring, without tenderness and affection. And besides, she remembered how good life had been for them before. To which the priest asked her a question: “If you had a beautiful flower that you really liked, what would you do with it?”
“I would put him in a place where he would feel comfortable and cozy.” Once every six months I would replant it and change the pot. And, besides, I would care for and cherish him every day! - this is what the woman answered.
The wise priest asked her what prevents her from treating family life like a beautiful flower? Why doesn’t she just as carefully look after the man after they got married, shower him with compliments and caresses, and nourish him with beautiful outfits? After all, all men love with their eyes, which means a girl should always be beautiful. So, it’s worth making a toast to those women who do not destroy a marriage, but grow it like the most beautiful flower in the world.
Eastern parables and toasts
An old, poorly dressed woman came to the house where the wedding of two sisters was being celebrated. The eldest screamed that they didn’t need such a beggar and tried to kick her out of the house. However, the younger sister took the old woman by the hand and sat her down at the table. It turned out that the old woman was a fairy. She gave a gift to each of the sisters. She gave her rude sister black glasses as a gift. And she began to see everything as bad, ugly and rude. She was constantly dissatisfied with everything, all her husband’s actions irritated her. As a result, their family became poor and fell apart.
And the fairy gave rose-colored glasses to her younger sister. From that day on, the girl saw everything as beautiful, worthy of love and tenderness. She did not see her husband’s minor shortcomings, did not notice any misconduct in family relationships. And the result of this was a happy and full of joys life. So let all women be able to make family life one bright morning. After all, what life in the family will be like depends on them.
Toasts are said so that the newlyweds think about family life on their wedding day. All parables and toasts are created based on the life experience of many generations. In the east there is a saying: “The first month is honey, and the second is wormwood.” And indeed it is. For the first month, young people do not notice anything around them. They are happy and see everything in a special light. But then come joint affairs and problems. Young people begin to get to know their significant other better. And the main thing at this time is to learn not to notice the minor shortcomings of your partner. So it’s worth raising this toast so that this couple can have a honeymoon forever. And so that they don’t take off their rose-colored glasses.
The Parable of the Crystal Toys
A wedding parable is not only a beautiful story, but also a wise parting word for newlyweds, as well as a way to remind them of the importance of love in their lives.
“Once upon a time there lived a puppeteer. He showed the children the most wonderful performances, at the end of which he gave everyone crystal toys. These toys were very beautiful, but fragile. Many children carelessly broke them and became very upset.
Local residents accused the puppeteer of deliberately making such fragile toys to upset children. But the puppeteer explained that he does this so that children learn to take care of what they value. When they grow up, fate will give them a priceless gift - love. It is important to take care of it, but it is very difficult to do. So he is trying to provide children with the opportunity to practice on his crystal gifts before they grow up and receive the most valuable gift of fate.
You, dear bride and groom, have already found your love. I wish you to take care of it and carry it through your whole life.”
A little bit of pepper
Sometimes young people forget that family life is not only boundless happiness. A wedding congratulation parable can remind them of this: nevertheless, such teachings are an excellent way to convey to newly-made spouses the secrets of life together.
“One very rich man in his old age married a beautiful young girl. The young wife tried in every possible way to please her husband, but very soon he began to complain about the boredom and monotony of life, about being tired of it. The man’s friend was amazed: “How can this be! Your wife is charming, she is ready to do anything for you!” The rich man with a smile invited him to stay for lunch. Chocolate, Turkish delight, cookies, marmalade, and cakes were served on the table. The friend was surprised by such a choice of dishes, but tried one, another, third, fourth... not even an hour had passed before he begged: “I can’t eat sweets anymore! Give me something else." The rich man handed him wine: “You see, even sweets get boring.” So let family life for our young people be spicy, piquant, salty, but in no case bitter!”
Parable for a wedding “The Language of Love”
Beautiful toasts in poetry and prose about love are always appropriate at any wedding, and if they are also said in the form of a parable, then success is definitely guaranteed.
“Before traveling abroad, a young man asked his friend: “If suddenly I meet a girl there and fall in love with her, how will I tell her about it if I don’t know the language.” To this, the friend replied: “Just hug her tightly and she will understand everything.”
So let's drink to the universal language of love, which can be understood without words. For love!
A long time ago
Sometimes long and serious congratulations can tire impatient newlyweds. Therefore, you need to think about how to keep the parable for the newlyweds short but succinct. In this case, you can use a reference to distant times.
“The word “spouse,” as they say, came to us from the ancient Greek language. Surprisingly, it means a harness of oxen. At first glance, it is not clear why a young family is compared to beasts of burden, but in reality everything is simple. Spouses, like oxen, should be in the same harness, endure the mundanity of family life together, and relax together. So may you always be there."
The Legend of Two Mice
A parable for a wedding about love is a touching and romantic congratulation that the newlyweds will definitely like.
“Probably everyone has heard the legend about how two mice accidentally fell into a pot of cream. One mouse gave up, but the other struggled for a very long time and was able to get out by whipping up a lump of butter with its paws.
But few people know that the reason for the second mouse’s persistence was her love for her husband, who was waiting for her at home. After all, love is fraught with enormous power, which helps to cope with all troubles and difficulties. “I want to raise a glass to the newlyweds and to their love, which contains inexhaustible power.”
Wishes touching to tears
Funny and humorous wishes are not always appropriate at a celebration.
Sometimes you want to hear more sentimental and touching speeches .
1 toast option
A long time ago, young spouses decided to find out what real happiness is.
To do this, the sage told them that it was necessary to tear off a piece of the shirt of an absolutely happy person. They went to the villages. The couple approached people and asked if they felt absolutely happy? One answered that he lacked money, another answered that he lacked love, and the third answered that he lacked health. The couple were completely desperate. And then they saw a young man lying on a green lawn and singing songs loudly. The husband and wife approached him and asked him to tear off a piece of his shirt.
Then the young man laughed loudly and said that he did not have it. Let's raise our glasses to the newlyweds who don't have to chase other people's happiness. Remember that you need to find yours and not let go of it throughout your life.
Toast option 2
A very rich man had the most beautiful wife in the world. His friend was jealous of him and claimed that he had the easiest life, because life was carefree and happy. Then the rich man invited a friend to stay with him for a few days.
The man ordered his cook to serve only sweet dishes, pastries and cakes. A few days later, the friend begged for something salty or spicy.
Let's drink to the fact that young people's lives will have everything: both sweet and spicy. At the same time, everything was balanced and there were no spices.
Parable-instruction for newlyweds
A parable for newlyweds can combine both wishes and wise instructions that will help the couple in their future family life.
“Once upon a time there lived a young couple. They often quarreled over trifles and could not find a common language. They turned to the sage in the hope that he would help save their marriage. The wise old man handed the young people a box of matches and said: “Break and throw away one match every time you quarrel. Your marriage will last as long as there are matches in the box. And when the matches run out, you will part.”
The couple listened to the sage, but when they noticed how quickly the matches were decreasing, they were afraid of the imminent separation and stopped quarreling.
On your wedding day, dear newlyweds, I want to give you a box with one match, so that you never forget about the parable you heard, appreciate each other and never quarrel.”
Flowers of life
But endless parables about love are not what you want to listen to all evening: young people will understand everything after the third or fourth congratulations. So what else do they want at weddings? It is right that the family grows larger as soon as possible. For such a wish, you can use this parable:
“One sculptor created extraordinarily beautiful sculptures - they were so realistic that they seemed alive. God decided to reward him and promised to breathe life into any two works that the master chooses. The sculptor created a man and a woman of extraordinary beauty, who, upon coming to life, immediately fell in love with each other. But over time, the master noticed that they became sad, that they were missing something in the world. One day they came to the sculptor and asked him for happiness. After much thought, he sculpted... a child from the material remaining after creating the pair. Real happiness is in children - let it appear to you as soon as possible!”
Eastern wisdom
The original wedding toast parable is a great way to congratulate and impress the newlyweds.
“People from the East say that the first month of marriage is honey, and the next month is wormwood. At first, the lovers are immensely passionate about each other. They look at everything through rose-colored glasses.
Later, when faced with various everyday problems, they get to know each other more. At this moment, you need to learn to ignore minor shortcomings and find a compromise.
I wish you, dear ones, an endless honeymoon. Love each other without noticing flaws. May you have neither reason nor desire to take off your rose-colored glasses.”
Cool wedding toasts in verse
We wish you to burn with love, relax on the island of Bali, rich and red borscht, and passionate relationships.
I give carrots so that problems can be dealt with deftly. Accept onions as a gift so that there are no tears and separations. I will give you a mug so that you respect and love each other. Soap to keep your home always cozy and clean. Soothers and panties for your little son, handkerchiefs and socks for your beautiful daughter. I give you a chocolate so that you always feel sweet and red pepper for passion. A jar of jam so that respect reigns in the family. Take cabbage so that your pockets are not empty.
Toast to the beauty of the bride
In the parable, you can not only wish something to the newlyweds, but also praise them, for example, compliment the bride.
“One day the Sultan decided to reward his vizier. He sent three girls to the vizier and told him to choose a wife from among them. The vizier asked the girls: “What does two plus two equal?” The first one answered: “Three.” The vizier decided that she would be a thrifty wife. The second replied: “Five.” The vizier decided that she was generous. The fourth replied that two and two equal four. The vizier decided that she was wise. The man thought about it and chose the most beautiful one. And today I propose to raise a glass to the beauty of the bride and all the ladies present.”
Cool toasts in the form of a parable dedicated to the newlyweds will be appropriate both during congratulations at the registry office and well received at a wedding banquet. Another interesting option for congratulating the newlyweds are Georgian wedding toasts, which you can find on the website svadbagolik.ru.
Just for fun
What's a wedding without humor? Usually funny parables about love for a wedding are short - they dilute the pomp of the celebration with a note of sincere fun. Here's one example:
“The already middle-aged couple celebrated their diamond wedding. Of course, they were asked how they were able to withstand such a long family life. To which the husband replied that it was all because of the single bed on which they slept: even after quarrels, they were forced to cuddle with each other at night. So let this family have a narrow bed that guarantees them a long but happy marriage.”
Advice from elders
An excellent parable of congratulations on a wedding can be heard from the parents of the couple. A little humor and a huge amount of warmth will pleasantly please both the newlyweds and the guests of the celebration.
“I remember the first time my little son returned from kindergarten in torn clothes - he had a fight with one of the children. Then I sternly told him that this would be the last time. Several years passed, he brought his first bad mark from school, to which, scolding him, I repeated again, so that this would be the last time. Today my son is getting married for the first time. And the only thing I want to tell him now is: “So that this is the last time!”
