As the famous saying goes, “men are like children,” which means they love holidays and gifts. Throw away the prejudice that arranging surprises is the prerogative of husbands, not wives! Even though it is more difficult for the stronger sex to express their feelings, they value care and attention no less than women. By planning an original birthday party, you will give your husband unforgettable memories and endless pleasure. In addition, such manifestations of love and tenderness are simply necessary to maintain the strength of feelings, which are sometimes lost in everyday routine.
At the first stage, you have to choose the most suitable one from a huge variety of ways to celebrate your birthday. The main question you need to decide is what composition you plan to celebrate your birthday with. Many other things depend on this, including the place and method of celebration. Your husband's birthday can be noisy and crowded, in the circle of your closest ones, or even just with you alone.
Having found the answer to the first question, make a detailed plan for the preparation and the holiday itself - especially for a magnificent celebration. Book a restaurant in advance, decide on the menu, prepare a festive program. A home celebration, of course, does not require such careful organization, but even here all organizational aspects - giving a gift, decorating a room, dishes - should be thought through in advance. Remember that on the cherished day all your attention should be devoted to the birthday person, who in no case should get lost in the bustle caused by poor organization.
Throw a surprise party
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Probably everyone at least once dreamed that on his birthday his friends would throw a secret party in his honor, just like in an American movie. Why don't you organize such a surprise for your loved one? While the birthday boy is waiting for a simple tea party with cake, organize a real celebration. Rent a stylish loft, order a treat and secretly invite all his friends. Just imagine how happy your man will be with such a gift!
Hire a cover band to play his favorite song
Every man has a favorite song. If you know what track he sings in the shower, give your loved one a live performance of his favorite hit. You don't have to master vocals or try to resurrect Kurt Cobain for the evening. All you have to do is find a cover band on social networks that will agree to help you organize a surprise. Invite a man to a restaurant, at the appointed time, raise your glasses and warmly congratulate him. Immediately after your words, your favorite song should start playing. But if your man is a fan of metal or rap, then you should arrange a surprise in a place where there are many like-minded people.
Holiday. Memorable date
Men usually don’t remember dates of meetings, wedding anniversaries, etc. That’s what you are there for! Remind us of this exciting event.
Most likely, you will want to sit with your loved one somewhere alone. At your discretion: going to a restaurant, cafe or dinner at home by candlelight, alone with your memories.
You can organize a wonderful evening at home. Heart-shaped balls. Wedding album. Prepare an unforgettable dinner. Rethink your wedding. Surely there were some funny and touching moments...
Create a quest to find a gift
Does your husband love quizzes, quizzes and intellectual movies? Then don’t even think about giving him a gift just like that! Let him look for him throughout the apartment, completing tasks and answering questions. If your husband loves Potter or the Tolkien universe, then it will be great to dedicate part of the quest to this. Can't live a day without the songs of the King and the Jester? Then give him a quiz dedicated to Russian rock.
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Also, when coming up with tasks, you can hint at a future gift. For example, if you are going to give him a sports machine, then let him do push-ups at speed or let him look for the trapezius muscle on your body.
Original ways to congratulate a guy on his birthday
Give your loved one a holiday
A gift for a guy should be bright and memorable
If you want to surprise your lover on his birthday, organize the celebration yourself. Remember, the holiday should be bright and memorable.
An excellent option is a surprise party to which all friends will be invited, but the guy shouldn’t even know about it.
You can arrange such a celebration at home or go to your favorite cafe or bar. Under any pretext, a man must be invited to a restaurant where guests will already be waiting. An excellent addition to the celebration will be cheerful congratulations from all friends.
Special book
You can make a special book as a gift
Even if a young man has read a lot of books, it is unlikely that he has ever come across one that you prepared for him as a gift.
Important! Such a surprise will go off with a bang only if your boyfriend is a lover of romance. The girl must do the making of the special book herself. To do this you will need:
- Start collecting material for your masterpiece long before the celebration. You need to write down in a special diary everything interesting that happened to your young man - not only funny and sad stories, but also special, most important events.
- When leaving home, try to always take a camera with you and take more pictures. Afterwards, in your own special book, the text can be illustrated with photographs.
- Write down notes and reflections regarding a particular event. Try to make the book prioritize happy moments. If we are talking about a sad event, then in the end everything must end well.
- After collecting the material, you can begin to design your masterpiece. Select from all those events and facts that will be in your book.
- Buy a new notebook and diary and start slowly organizing it. Remember, the book must be special.
- You can print such a book in a printing house, but this is a more expensive and serious option. It's much easier to do it in the form of a funny comic strip.
An exciting quest with a well-deserved reward
An exciting quest can be an original gift
The original presentation of a gift will be remembered for a long time, which can be organized in the form of a quest.
To make the game more exciting and intriguing, you can take the quest to the city level.
Hints and instructions should not be overly complex. They might be something like this:
- To begin with, you can send your significant other an SMS message from an unfamiliar number inviting them to go outside. He goes there in hopes of discovering a surprise, but for him everything is just beginning.
- Now it is important to spark excitement and intrigue the young man. Invite him to follow the white cat (one of his friends should be nearby, dressed in a white cat costume). As soon as the young man notices him and begins to approach him, the cat begins to run away.
- Having reached a certain place, the disguised friend disappears, and the guy sees some new sign, for example, an arrow pointing to a balloon with a note inside. The message indicates the place where the young man should go. This could be his favorite cafe or bar, where invited friends are waiting for the birthday boy.
- Such a quest can continue for a long time, depending on the desire and imagination of the organizer. But do not forget that at the end of the birthday party there must be a worthy reward.
- It will be very interesting. if the final destination of the quest is the young man’s own home, where he will be greeted by an elegantly decorated room, a festive table and friends. However, this is only possible if the organizer has the ability to get into the birthday boy’s apartment without the owner himself.
- Returning home after completing the quest, the young man will be pleasantly surprised by the surprise awaiting him.
Extreme holiday
A hot air balloon flight can be a great gift for extreme sports enthusiasts.
It will be an unexpected and pleasant surprise if you give a young man a hot air balloon flight, a parachute jump or an ATV race for his birthday.
But this is only possible if your young man has a positive attitude towards such sports.
It will be interesting if the presentation of such a gift also becomes unusual. For example, you can order a taxi, explaining in advance to the driver where he should bring his passenger.
But for the young man, until the very last moment it must remain a mystery where and why he is being taken. You can meet a guy not far from your final destination, blindfold the guy in the car and then lead him by the hand. Your boyfriend will remember this surprise for a long time.
Paintball game
Playing paintball will not leave a guy without great memories of his birthday
If a young man is not a supporter of extreme sports, you can organize a paintball game for him, inviting his friends to participate. An active and quite emotional game will appeal to any guy.
Having chosen a game scenario, having agreed in advance with friends, you, as in the previous version, can not tell the young man where he is being taken or taken until the last moment. Once on the playground, untie his eyes, and you will see how pleasantly surprised he will be.
Almost all paintball clubs take care of their clients, so after the game they offer tents where you can continue the celebration at a set table and a grill for cooking barbecue.
Going to the Turkish bath
Such a gift is an excellent opportunity not only to surprise and please your chosen one, but also to have a pleasant time together and leave wonderful memories in your memory for a long time.
To organize a surprise, you will need to book a room in the Turkish bath in advance and decorate it with candles. Don't forget to bring a bottle of wine, glasses and sweets. Meeting your loved one naked in a jacuzzi will win his heart forever.
Surprise "step by step"
An original gift can be a surprise step by step
If the gift has already been purchased but not yet presented, then organize a surprise for your loved one step by step, for which you will need ordinary threads. Everything will happen as follows:
- In addition to the main gift, you will also need several small ones, for example, postcards, balloons, chocolates and other nice little things. You should also prepare a very long thread and scissors. For the surprise to be a success, you must spend the night in one place.
- In order to prepare a surprise, you will need to get up early. You need to take the prepared thread and tie the gifts onto it. Leave sufficient distance between objects. Make sure that the knots are easy to untie. At the very end of the thread, tie the main gift.
- While your lover is still sleeping, quietly spread this thread with gifts throughout the apartment, entangling it so that you get a real labyrinth. The thread should be tied in the right places so that it is stretched somewhere higher and somewhere lower.
- To make it comfortable for a young person to go through the prepared labyrinth in the morning, it is best to start in the bathroom. In addition, take care of preparing clothes and breakfast.
- Once everything is ready, tie the free end of the thread to the young man’s hand. This will wake him up.
- Having gotten dressed, he follows the thread to the bathroom, where he washes himself, then goes to the kitchen, where breakfast is already waiting for him. After this, he will be able to calmly and fully walk through the prepared labyrinth.
- The complexity of the labyrinth determines how interesting it will be to go through. You may have to crawl under the thread somewhere and step over it somewhere. Along the way, the young man will receive pleasant small gifts.
The guy will love this surprise. An exciting little adventure and the main gift at the end will be appreciated by him.
Read a stand-up comedy about the man you love
If your chosen one is in need of humor, write a congratulation about him in the stand-up genre. Let it be good jokes about your family life, funny habits and charming features of your husband. You shouldn’t go to an open microphone with this material; it’s better to let only those closest to you hear your speech. You shouldn’t go too far (unless your couple likes dark humor). End the stand-up with a declaration of love and a tight hug, so that no joke will certainly hurt the birthday boy’s pride.
By the way, if you want to create the atmosphere of a real comedian’s performance, you can organize a party on a site with a stage.
Send a courier with a gift for a surprise at a distance
If it so happens that you find yourself far from the birthday boy on his birthday, this is not a reason not to surprise him! By courier you can send him a cake, a box of designer cupcakes, or his favorite pizza for breakfast. Just make sure that your husband will be at home at this time and, preferably, chatting with you via video call. Then you will see his reaction to the surprise with your own eyes.
Stage two: planning
Having decided on the place, time and number of invited guests, it’s time to start working out the details:
- notify friends and family
that they are invited. This can be done by phone or by sending an invitation card; - decide on the “program of the evening”:
a noisy themed party, a family holiday with fun competitions, an evening for two that smoothly flows into the night, etc. - prepare a scenario
for your husband’s unforgettable birthday, even if it is an evening for two, you cannot do without a pre-thought-out plan of action; - Prepare the attributes
that will be needed for the holiday. For example, a wall newspaper with a romantic twist, a humorous collage of funny photographs (if there are no funny ones, you can replace them with suitable magazine clippings), small prizes for competition winners and, of course, don’t forget about a gift for the birthday boy. - think over the holiday menu.
Cook his favorite dish
What man doesn't love delicious food? A favorite dish is always a pleasant and inexpensive surprise. If your birthday falls on a weekend, prepare a festive breakfast and serve it in bed. If it’s on weekdays, welcome you home from work with a hot dinner. Don't forget about beautiful serving! Take out the holiday napkins, light the candles, and place a bouquet of flowers on the table. Even if your loved one usually eats from a frying pan with a fork, he will appreciate your efforts.
Have a holiday. Firecrackers and balls
A fireworks display in honor of your loved one is unusual and bright! Small crackers or regular balloons will help create a festive atmosphere. Fill the balloons with shiny elements, paper, confetti. Inflate and puncture the balloons at a certain point. It will be interesting and colorful!
Don't forget to give a gift to the clink of glasses and noisy firecrackers!
Year after year we congratulate our loved ones and give them the most important thing - attention. Your festive, happy mood will definitely give warmth and loving feelings to your man.
Let the holiday be unforgettable!
Invite to a place related to your man's hobbies
The best way to pleasantly surprise a man on his birthday is to prepare a surprise related to his hobby. There are a lot of options - renting a sports car, going to MMA or boxing, a pottery master class, shopping with a stylist, a photo shoot. The main thing is not to reveal where you are going until the last minute. Let your loved one think that you are heading to Auchan for your weekly shopping.
In a wide circle
Is your loved one the life of the party and loves crowded feasts? In this case, you will have to find a place that can accommodate all the guests. If your apartment is too small for this, you can always rent a cafe or restaurant. And in the warm season, the best option is to go out into nature, it both saves money and changes impressions.
- If you gather a lot of guests, one of the main questions is how to entertain them. This is especially true for “diverse” companies, where not everyone present knows each other. With this arrangement, a holiday program is mandatory, at least at first - otherwise you risk watching embarrassed silence and uncooperative conversation. Birthday contests - you can prepare in advance or offer one of the popular games, for example, forfeits.
- Another way to avoid awkwardness at the holiday table is to celebrate your birthday at a bowling alley, karaoke or other themed club. A common interesting cause will quickly unite and unite guests.
- When celebrating a birthday with your closest friends, of course, you can do without a special program - you will certainly have fun together. And yet, the gaming element brings excitement to any holiday! Hold a lottery, a comic quiz about your husband’s life, invite your friends to write wishes for him in a separate album, remember funny incidents associated with the birthday boy. A birthday should still be different from an ordinary friendly feast.
Buy a bouquet
If your husband takes the selection of bouquets seriously and even waters your ficus, he may be happy to receive flowers in addition to the gift. Carefully find out from him what he thinks about such a beautiful gesture. If a man doesn’t see anything bad in bouquets, feel free to give him a flower arrangement. In addition, you will be able to post the photo on your social networks and no one will even suspect that the bouquet was not given to you.
If your chosen one is indifferent to flowers, you can put together a bouquet from anything. Candies, kinder surprises, fruits, chili peppers or even sausages with beer - the choice is limited only by your imagination. We just advise you to forget about the famous “bouquets” of socks. Such a gift could have passed as original about 10 years ago.
We hope you have already decided how to surprise your man on his birthday. But before you implement any idea from the article, make sure that the birthday person loves surprises. If, on the contrary, he loves to plan everything, just subtly hint to your loved one what to expect from the evening - joyful anticipation will only benefit the holiday.
HUSBAND
The hero of the occasion is blindfolded. And the guests, in a chaotic manner, leave their transcript on a large sheet of paper (it can be attached to the wall). You need to decipher the word “HUSBAND”, for example, My Smart Bug; Mister Exciting Life; Dear Wife Tamer and so on. The transcript must be written in block letters. Once all the guests have left their transcripts, the hero of the occasion opens his eyes and is given a marker. The husband must select the best transcripts by checking the box. Prizes will be awarded to the authors of selected transcripts.
