Wedding competitions for newlyweds are small tests to prepare for their future life together. With their help, you can check your knowledge about each other, as well as make sure of your common plans for the future. Wedding competitions should be light, relaxed, fun and create a good mood for both participants and spectators. The “Distribution of Responsibilities” competition at a wedding meets all these criteria.
Essence and props
The main idea of this competition is to distribute responsibilities within a young family, so that it is fun and interesting for both the newlyweds and guests. There are several options for carrying it out. Depending on which option the presenter offers, the newlyweds either determine their responsibilities in the family themselves, or chance does it for them.
The competition will fit perfectly into the entertainment program for a small wedding.
To conduct this you may need one or another props. You will also have to prepare a text for the presenter and select music. Important! You should not completely rely on the tastes of the host or DJ in choosing wedding music, as their preferences may not coincide with yours.
Props for the competition “Distribution of family responsibilities”:
- balls with pieces of paper on which responsibilities are written, and needles;
- objects symbolizing some kind of duty (for example, a frying pan or a hammer), and a rope;
- cards with text, tray or jar;
- homemade chamomile;
- spinning top with an arrow, envelopes with questions.
Wedding competition: Get to know me, darling
Bride's Leg
Props:
- 1. Scarf for eyes.
- 2. Stockings.
The ladies, including the bride, sit on the chairs, 4-5 people. They show the groom that his wife is sitting among them. The groom is blindfolded. At this moment, all the women change seats, and among them (for color) 1-2 men sit down. At this time, the bride is replaced by another girl. Everyone bares one leg (just above the knees) and lets the groom in with a bandage. He is squatting, touching everyone's bare leg with his hands in turn, and must recognize his wife. Men can wear stockings to hide hairiness. There are many options.
Bride's hand
Several women come out, preferably of different ages, from girls to grandmothers. They remove all the jewelry from the hand. The groom must guess his betrothed while blindfolded.
Kiss the Bride
Recognize the bride by a kiss (the groom is seated on a chair, three girls are called, he is blindfolded; only the bride always kisses).
Ideas
You can distribute the following responsibilities of young people in the competition:
- provide for family;
- to take out the trash;
- rest;
- iron clothes;
- do makeovers;
- change children's diapers;
- lift someone else's spirits;
- paint your nails;
- have a romantic dinner;
- call your parents to find out how they are doing;
- let go for walks with friends;
- be responsible for the family budget;
- delight your spouse with pleasant surprises;
- support your spouse;
- be in love;
- value;
- give gifts;
- carry in your arms.
Wedding fortune telling for a boy-girl
Cabbage
Props:
- 1. Cabbage.
- 2. Coin.
There is a coin hidden in the cabbage. Who will find her first? If the groom is a boy, if the bride is a girl.
Kindergarten
Props:
- 1.Children's toys.
- 2. Scarf for eyes.
Children's toys are laid out on a tray - those that belong to girls - a doll, knitting needles, some kind of decoration, and those that belong to boys - cars, pistols, etc.
The groom is blindfolded and asked to take a toy at random from the tray. On this subject they wonder who will be first. You can let the bride take part in fortune telling. Then the newlyweds, blindfolded, take turns sorting out the toys and, based on the last toy, determine who will be the first to be born in the young family.
Scripts for young people
Surprise inside
This scenario uses balloons. To carry out it is necessary:
- Prepare notes in advance on which responsibilities are written:
- put one note in each ball;
- inflate the balloons.
Important! Family responsibilities in this scenario are distributed by chance.
The newlyweds take turns choosing one of the balloons, popping it and reading out the dropped note.
Before reading the note, you can say:
- Darling! I'm ready for you...
- My only one! For the sake of your smile, I agree...
- My only one! I love you so much that I'm ready...
- My dear! No matter what, I'm ready...
For "The Surprise Inside" you need the following props:
- balloons;
- notes;
- needles.
Association
This version of the competition involves the use of things and objects that symbolize one or another duty.
For example:
- frying pan - who cooks the food;
- iron - who irons things;
- children's book - who raises children;
- skewer - who cooks kebabs;
- garbage bag - who gets the privilege of throwing out garbage;
- a spool of thread - who will have to sew up socks;
- mop - who cleans the house;
- diaper - who changes children's diapers;
- plate - who washes the dishes;
- car keys - who controls the car;
- travel magazine – who plans and chooses places to travel;
- knitting needles - who knits socks.
Advice! To carry out it is necessary to select items in advance (in approximately equal quantities for the bride and groom) and hang them on a rope.
The newlyweds are blindfolded and brought into the hall with a rope with objects previously hung on it. The bride and groom cut off half of the items that hang on the rope. After this, their eyes are untied, and a cheerful distribution of responsibilities begins - everyone puts on their shoulders what the things from the pile are associated with.
Props:
- objects;
- rope;
- 2 scissors;
- 2 scarves for blindfolding.
I will
This version of the competition is the simplest. Its preparation requires a minimum of time and materials. All you need is:
- write on paper various actions and activities that most people do in everyday life;
- fold the pieces of paper so that what is written is not visible;
- place them on a tray or put them in a beautiful jar.
The bride and groom take turns taking out folded pieces of paper, unfolding them and reading what is written on them. Every time before reading the content they must say: “I will...”.
For example, “I will...”:
- ...cook soups;
- …repair the car;
- …taking out the trash;
- ...put the children to bed;
- ...laugh at your jokes;
- ...bring breakfast in bed;
- ...to treat you when you are sick;
- ...make you smile;
- ...give you a massage;
- ...kiss you in the morning.
Props:
- pieces of paper with responsibilities;
- tray or jar.
Who will do what?
It is necessary to prepare envelopes in advance with questions that can be of a different nature and belong to certain areas of knowledge. It is worth choosing questions from the school curriculum so that the competition does not tire the guests.
Envelopes are laid out in a circle on the table, and in the center is a spinning top with an arrow. The host names some duty and the newlyweds spin the spinning top. She then stops and points to the envelope with the question. The presenter reads out the question, and the responsibility that the presenter named goes to the one who was the first to answer the question.
For this option you need:
- spinning top with arrow;
- envelopes with questions.
Yours/mine/ours
The competition will show whether the young people discussed their future life and were able to agree on who will do certain household chores. The newlyweds independently determine what responsibilities:
- will be performed by everyone;
- what the spouse will do;
- and what they will do together.
Advice! A list of questions that the presenter will ask must be prepared in advance.
The host calls the newlyweds forward. He places two chairs with their backs facing each other and invites the young people to sit down and take off their shoes. After this, the groom must give the bride one of his shoes, and the bride must give the groom one of her shoes. The newlyweds sit with their backs to each other so as not to see their spouse’s answers (it will be more fun this way).
After exchanging shoes, the host asks questions beginning with the words “Who will be in your house”:
- ...cook pancakes;
- ...waking up at night when the child cries;
- ...buy sweets for home;
- ...make jokes wittier;
- ...laugh louder at your own jokes;
- …solve problems;
- ...wash socks;
- ...bargain on the market;
- ...ask parents for money;
- …tolerate your spouse’s antics;
- ...be the first to make peace?
And for each question, the bride and groom must:
- pick up their shoes - if they themselves do it;
- spouse's shoes - if he should do it;
- two at once if they think they will do it together.
Advice! Shoes can be replaced with other items, for example, a ladle (feminine attribute) and a hammer (male attribute).
For the “Yours/Mine/Ours” competition you need:
- list of questions for the presenter;
- shoes of young people or other male and female attributes.
Tips for an interesting wedding
Responsibilities of guests at a wedding
The comic responsibilities of the bride and groom can be recorded in a certificate prepared in advance and presented as a memory of the wedding.
When conducting an entertainment program at the very beginning of the evening, the toastmaster can distribute comic duties to the guests at the wedding. The most active with a great sense of humor can receive the position of right-hand toastmaster or toast speaker. Treasurer, cupbearer, maid of honor, and other humorous appointments will help make for a fun, interesting holiday evening.
How to distribute responsibilities at a wedding between the bride and groom in an original way?
Behind the bride ransom, the ceremonial painting at the registry office, a photo shoot, skating and, finally, a restaurant. All the guests, slightly drunk, continue to scream bitterly and have fun. The program of the celebration and the various competitions included in it are designed to please and entertain the guests. In order for guests to eat, drink, have fun and not forget the reason why they gathered, you need to prepare an entertaining scenario dedicated to the creation of a new family. A loud and cheerful wedding can introduce and make friends with all the guests at the celebration. The atmosphere of joy, universal participation and jokes is created by entertaining thematic competitions.
The newlyweds are the key figures of the feast, so a number of competitions should be dedicated to their future life together
One of these is a competition for the distribution of responsibilities - a comic form that tells about who will do what in the house for the benefit of the family.
Options
There are several ways to conduct competitions. Questions are written down on pieces of paper or cards and placed on a tray or box. Drawing randomly in turns, the bride and groom answer, beginning each answer with “I will...”.
Prepare cards for wedding competitions
You can make a flower out of cardboard with removable petals. Each petal has one responsibility. The host of the competition invites the newlyweds to take out a petal , read out the question and answer in turn.
A wedding competition for the distribution of family responsibilities of the newlyweds can be held by removing the shoes and boots from the newlyweds. Seat the bride and groom in the center of the hall with their backs to each other. Both will vote for a particular duty at the same time. If it is a man’s duty, then they lift up the shoe, if it is a woman’s duty, then they lift up the shoe. For the amusement of guests , it will become clear who will earn money and who will lie on the couch and watch TV series. At the end of the distribution of responsibilities in the family, insert an oath of eternal love, a toast and shouts of “Bitter”.
It is recommended to hold the competition for no more than 20 minutes, so that the newlyweds do not get tired and the guests do not get bored
Cards with numbers - behind each number the toastmaster has cool responsibilities of the newlyweds.
Questions always begin with the word “How much...”.
Responsibilities of the Bride
The future spouse needs to take care of many little things. She is responsible for selecting and purchasing boutonnieres, wedding glasses, ring scarves, candles and other important little things.
The choice of bridesmaids is of particular importance for the bride. After all, they will be the ones who will help her prepare the wedding. If the holiday has many guests, then they usually choose one girl for 30-40 guests.
The bride should carefully consider her image. It is advisable to involve everyone the girl trusts in the selection of the main outfit: sisters, girlfriends, parents. The main thing is to remember after purchasing the chosen outfit: you can’t lose weight or gain weight in order for the dress to look great.
The bride is also obliged to choose the accessories she needs. After all, every item chosen should please her. It is important to choose the right makeup artist and hairdresser. To be confident in the artist, the future newlywed can use the services of a trial makeup and hairstyle. Of course, we shouldn’t forget about health. After all, even the simplest cold can interfere with the celebration.
The future wife needs to carefully pack her purse and make a list of everything that should always be near her girlfriends. It is also worth remembering that a wedding is a long process, and comfortable shoes without heels will come in handy during the second part of the celebration.
But the girl’s main task is to be a happy and beautiful bride, and in everything else she will definitely be helped by the toastmaster, who clearly knows about the responsibilities of the newlywed.
Lyrics for "Chamomile"
The chamomile for the ransom and for the banquet part may be similar. But the flower’s task is not always to ask questions: it can also give answers. The content of the petals largely depends on how the competition is structured. On them you can place memorable dates for the couple, answers about the responsibilities of everyone in the new family, write humorous answers to questions asked by the host, and much more. You can use the following as dates:
- the date when the young people met;
- bride's ring size;
- the birthday of each of the couple;
- the day of the first meeting;
- the size of the future wife's legs;
- date of first confession or kiss.
Family responsibilities
The original distribution of responsibilities at a wedding takes place in the form of a competition with the attributes of a lottery or drawing forfeits. To have fun , you need to take the list of family responsibilities seriously.
Distribute responsibilities at the wedding between the bride and groom
is designed to prophesy the strength of bonds , predict who will have to do what, and dream together with the young people in front of witnesses and guests.
Compliments
A delicious compliment
The host asks the bride the names of the dishes that she will prepare for her beloved for breakfast, lunch and dinner.
For each dish, the groom must tell his wife an affectionate word beginning with the same letter as the dish:
Potatoes are my beauty, cutlets are my kitten, salad is my sexy...
Wedding game - Compliment (19 RUR)
Affectionate hedgehog
Props:
- 1.Apple.
- 2.Toothpicks.
Stick more matches into a big beautiful apple. The newlyweds should take turns pulling out these matches and saying sweet words. Whoever has the most matches wins.
I am always with you
Props:
- 1. Sheets of paper with inscriptions.
This game involves the bride and groom.
Its essence is that on a large sheet of paper the sentence “I am always with you, beloved” is written in a line. The paper is cut into strips, each of which corresponds to one of the letters of the inscription. The bride and groom take turns tearing off strips of paper and choosing affectionate words for each other that begin with the letters that make up the phrase.
Distribution of responsibilities at a wedding: competition in different options
Now let's take a closer look at ways to conduct a family responsibilities competition in which there are only two participants - the bride and groom. It is worth noting that such “competitions” can be held at a bachelor and bachelorette party, only in this case the friends tell the hero of the occasion what they will do for him after the wedding, how they will support him, etc. The most important thing is to choose the right method of execution depending on the format and the style of the wedding, the size of the banquet room and many other factors.
"I will"
It is necessary to write down the duties on pieces of paper in advance, fold them so that what is written is not visible, or you can even beautifully roll them up into a tube and tie them with a ribbon. The pieces of paper are placed in a large transparent jar with a wide neck to make it easy to remove the notes, or laid out on a tray.
The newlyweds take turns taking out pieces of paper at random, unfolding them and reading out their “duty” with the words “I will.” This is the easiest way to organize such a competition, which is suitable for both a small wedding scenario and a magnificent celebration program.
"The Answer Is Within"
This competition is more spectacular and fun compared to the previous one. It is better suited for a magnificent celebration, where there will be many young people and children among the guests. The sound of popping balloons and the search for the “jumped away” piece of paper will add more activity to the competition, slightly heat up the atmosphere and attract more attention from the guests.
It is necessary to write responsibilities on pieces of paper in advance and roll them up so that they fit inside the balloon. Then the balls are inflated and taken out into the hall. The newlyweds take pins and take turns popping their balloons. They randomly come across responsibilities, the distribution of which at a wedding competition can be completely unexpected.
"Association"
The rope must be pulled, for example, between the backs of two chairs. Various objects related to everyday life and family life are hung on a rope using threads. This could be diapers, garbage bags, cleaning rags, children's books, car keys, a bouquet of flowers, knitting needles, a wallet and much more.
