Matchmaking is an important event before the wedding, where newlyweds and parents will not only be able to meet and communicate, but also discuss important details of the upcoming celebration. As at any holiday, during matchmaking, the bride’s host tries to set a sumptuous table to feed the guests heartily. To prevent the meal from being boring, the portal svadbagolik.ru suggests preparing several unusual and interesting toasts and matchmaking wishes for parents.
Short and funny toasts for matchmaking
Date of publication: 09/05/2015 00:00:00
Matchmaking also involves a feast with conversations and speeches. Therefore, funny and cool matchmaking toasts will attract the attention of all participants in the action, and will also greatly diversify the course of matchmaking. After all, nowadays they no longer make toasts without the help of a toastmaster, but this is very amusing and leaves pleasant memories of get-togethers. Short toasts for matchmaking do not require much effort to remember, but they carry a bit of humor and a short story - a wish that will interest and delight everyone present. Below are examples of such toasts.
Once upon a time, a loaf of bread was brought to the bride's house as a treat and a sign of wooing the bride. And today we present to you not a pie or a bun, but a grated groom’s roll that will suit everyone’s taste. And whether it will come to the table is up to you to decide. And we will raise this first glass just to the good appetite of the parents (bride)!
The moon and sun change places every day, giving way to each other. So our bride and groom shine on each other without interfering with their light of love. And this toast is for the stars to shine just as brightly, and for the star of one to attract another into its light by the will of its creators!
Today the weather gives extraordinary warmth - after all, matchmakers have come to your house with the heat of love from the future husband of the bride. So let this heat not scorch the wings of the bride, who flies into his warmth and warms the future family and melts the hearts of parents so that they give their daughter on a married flight without hesitation!
Finding your soul mate in this complex world is difficult. Only a few get such a lucky chance. So may luck smile on the groom and the marriage proposal will work out! This glass is for those who control fortune today - for parents!
No feast is complete without the most important thing - but this is not a festive dish, but a salt shaker! And today the whole point is that we are wooing the most important thing for the groom - his future wife! Let the house of the future family be a full cup, the taste of which will be the best, unless, of course, you overdo it with promises, don’t overdo it with emotions and receive as a gift the parents’ consent to cook for the wedding!
It is very difficult to survive on a desert island. You need to be able to cook, hunt and generally survive. It is very difficult to do this alone and therefore we ask parents for help - to agree to give their daughter’s hand to help our Robinson survive on the island of loneliness and sadness!
One day in the forest the animals started a dispute about who would control all the animals. They argued for a long time and then a lion came out and said: “Let everyone be ruled by the one who has every right to do so in his mind, heart and conscience - his other half!” So we match the other half for our groom, so that his fox mind, lion’s heart and clear conscience are guided by his better half - his wife.
Just as the waves of adversity will break against the strong ship of the family, how tightly the future husband will hold the helm of life, we also boldly raise a glass, as if in a strong storm, a glass in the hope that our course is correct and we will get consent to the wedding from the best old-timers seas of life - the bride's parents!
Long pants, curlers and a mask made of cucumbers, sour borscht on the stove and a rolling pin over your head... Gatherings in the garage and a salary in the stash... This is what definitely will not happen in the house of the future family if the parents agree to the wedding right now and raise this glass!
Adults and children love fairy tales. But family fairy tales are written by two people. And then a third little co-author appears, and a fourth and a fifth, depending on your luck. Today I would like to raise this glass to those who started this fairy tale - to the parents. After all, it is with their consent that the fairy tale will continue today and become a legend!
You can say a lot of short and funny toasts for matchmaking, but the main thing is still the love of the bride and groom and the good disposition of all participants in this action towards each other. Happy matchmaking!
What to say, how to behave to matchmakers
There are no special rules here. Many people are interested in matchmaking according to Russian customs. They are even trying to write a script. In fact, the whole ceremony goes quickly and unpretentiously. The matchmakers (groom) come and present bouquets to the bride and her mother. The girl is then removed from the premises. And the conversation begins. The matchmakers speak first. They say that there is a good fellow, handsome, dexterous and skillful (and so on according to the list). And you have a turtle dove waiting for its dove. So why can’t we work things out, unite two young souls? What follows is the response from the girl’s relatives. This is approximately how matchmaking works according to Russian customs. No script required. Only if you yourself want to turn the meeting into a fireworks display of pleasure. Then you can come up with competitions and quizzes. After the main words are said, everyone sits down to drink tea.
Toasts for matchmaking
Congratulations on your engagement, guys! Let everything be as you want. Let love be endless, And listen to these words: We will soon all play the wedding together, Let's drink to the happiness of the newlyweds. You need to take care of each other, There are no others like you. So let love and happiness overwhelm everything around. They will save you from bad weather, troubles, insults, quarrels and separations!
You have taken an important step towards happiness: The long journey has already been completed in full, And soon someone in white will be handed it to someone in black; Let the graceful head bow to the strong shoulder: I want to congratulate you on your long-awaited engagement today!
Now you are already a bride, You have grown up so quickly. Soon you will stand at the altar in a white dress. It seems to me that recently I took you to school. And you stand and laugh, my adult daughter. Be yourself - the happiest And don’t be sad about anything, My dear bride, You say goodbye to your father.
So you met at a beautiful time, And you became each other’s destiny, You won’t forget your beautiful features, And each one says to the other: Only you! We drink to make you happy, as carefree and sweet! Let's drink to the hope that everything will work out for this wonderful couple and that in the near future they will become husband and wife! Hooray!
Our beloved friends, We wish you to become family, We wish you to love to the end and be together in this world. No matter how life turns, you just don’t lose each other. Friends, be together forever and let the blizzard rest.
Congratulations on your engagement Ruffles! Let their eyes burn with love, Let a good union develop, And let the fact of family ties be pleasant. Grow and strive for your dreams, Have a successful journey to new shores, Maintain understanding and respect, Give birth to desired, happy children!
Engagement is a great thing, the wedding is just around the corner. The groom and family wanted to take the beauty as their bride. We arrived, everyone “rank by rank” and walked straight into the house with a question. The bride, without spoiling the picture, “I agree” - details later. Well, well, congratulations to the newlyweds, as well as to all loved ones and relatives. And we wish you earthly happiness, Get ready for the cherished day.
We congratulate the children on their engagement, we wish them love and good luck. We don’t cry bitterly to you yet, because the wedding has not yet come. It will whirl you around in the waltz of life, Everything will depend on you - To move harmoniously in the dance, become partners now. We wish you prosperity, health, pleasant troubles, and harmony. We bless you and may you be lucky in life.
Two halves merged into one destiny, May your life be long and beautiful, We sincerely congratulate you on your engagement, We wish you to live in harmony and love. Always cherish love, Take care of your feelings like the apple of your eye, May your field of life be fruitful, May nothing threaten it.
Lovers! Keep a chronicle of the events that have affected your family. Move progressively towards your wedding day - Remember your engagement. The purest emotions and confessions will only strengthen the chosen ones' union, strengthen the charm of youth in anticipation of marriage. You are doomed to be faithful to each other! Engaged for the first time and engaged forever!
Finally! Congratulations! I will say - it's high time! We wish you from the bottom of our hearts! Ah..., no fluff, no feather. Gave me a ring as a souvenir. A sign known for centuries. Your chest, girl, is busy. This is your agreement. We have a whole heap of gifts. We'll gather all our relatives. Sparkling songs are gunpowder. We'll bring it to your wedding.
Congratulations on your engagement. Today you have taken a very important step towards your future life together, which will be filled with joy, light, mutual understanding and love. May God protect you and your relationship. Happy holiday, my dear people, happiness and success to you!
Congratulations on your wedding - you're engaged, yay! May a tsunami of happiness and goodness fall upon you. You are an ideal couple, Let everything remain like this, More joy, good luck, Less sorrows, losses!
You gave each other two treasured rings—wedding rings—today! Hand in hand you will go to the end, Despite the heat and snowstorms! You made a vow today, Do not break it over the years, Let the light illuminate your path, The angel will always be behind you!
My toast is to an unexpected engagement, but very much desired, of course, so that your love leads to the altar, For this, friends, I drink with pleasure.
Wishes
Dear present! We have just witnessed the successful matchmaking of these two wonderful young people. Take a look at both of them, pay attention to the eyes of our beauty - they radiate happiness and joy. And the groom is obviously ready to be the head of the family, he is so courageous and serious. This means that the first step into a long and happy life together has been taken! We wish you a good journey in search of your destiny, and we will rejoice for you and support you if necessary!
The most beautiful sight in the world is the sight of two young people in love with each other. Matchmaking has always been an important and serious step towards achieving family happiness. You are now responsible to your parents for each other. We wish you mutual understanding, the ability to listen and hear, happiness and wisdom.
Today's event means that there are no longer any obstacles to the union of two loving hearts. Your matchmaking is a symbol of love and swan fidelity. We are very happy for your union and hope to see you in your wedding dresses soon.
To please the guests of the event, you should not memorize all the wishes and toasts. You can say everything in your own words, the first thing that comes to mind, and then congratulations will decorate the matchmaking. The Svadebka.ws portal wishes you to find those sincere words that you want to share with the newlyweds and their parents.
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Toasts for matchmaking and engagement
My toast is to an unexpected engagement, but very much desired, of course, so that your love leads to the altar, For this, friends, I drink with pleasure.
Dear guests! We have gathered here to witness the engagement of this noble young man and a beautiful girl. Look how her eyes glow with happiness, how shy and modest she is. And her chosen one shows with all his appearance that he is ready to become the head of the family. Well, friends, a start has been made, go forward to meet your destiny, and we will sincerely rejoice for you!
Not for words
- Presenter: Oh, this one is definitely yours! And modest, and blush, even reads books. Everything is as you described. Take it!
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Presenter: Look, what a hostess, a craftswoman. It sure cooks delicious food. With such a hostess, your socks will always be clean.
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Groom: Matchmaker, dear, stop fooling me. Serve mine here immediately (says the bride’s name), otherwise I’ll leave! I have no time to stand here with you.
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Presenter: Hey, wait, wait. You are too young and daring. Who does this? It is necessary to first present gifts to the bride and her parents.
Toasts
Today it is not so easy to meet your true love in this ever-changing world. Such luck really only comes to a select few. So let our groom get a lucky ticket and he will find the woman of his life! Let's drink to those who control such luck - to the parents!
Our life can be compared to an interesting and exciting movie. Today the main role is played by the groom. According to the script, it is planned that his life with his beloved will be long and happy, that their wealth will grow, and their feelings will only strengthen. Let's raise a toast to the bride's parents, who are the creators of the only suitable main character of this film!
Today brought with it incredible warmth, comparable to a hot July day. All because matchmakers appeared in this house, sent for the hand and heart of the future bride. So let this warmth warm everyone present and help parents make the right decision to make their daughter absolutely happy and find her betrothed!
As a rule, most of these toasts are addressed to the parents of the future newlywed in order to appease them and help them agree to the marriage proposal after matchmaking. Toasts in the form of a parable are also suitable here, which also praise their best qualities in an allegorical form.
“We have an excellent groom”
The betrothed, upon arrival at the chosen one’s home, certainly gives flowers to all the women present. The matchmakers are also not empty-handed; they bring sweets, fruits, and alcohol.
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- A separate gift from the groom or his relatives is given to the girl. As usual, this is jewelry or some valuable family heirloom.
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At the end of the exchange of greetings, the ritual participants sit down at the table, where the future celebration is discussed.
Congratulations on matchmaking
We hasten to congratulate our newlyweds on their matchmaking! We wish you an endlessly happy future, unquenchable love, unexpected and pleasant surprises and bright impressions from life together! I wish you happiness, mutual understanding and a joyful wedding!
Congratulations to the future newlyweds on successfully completing their first step towards living together! We are glad that a positive response has been received, and we hasten to wish great happiness for two loving and ardent hearts. May your lives merge together, may you be inspired for future joint achievements! We wish you harmony and beauty!
Our dear young people, please accept congratulations on your matchmaking! We wish that this important step will make your life happy and rich, prosperous and joyful, magical and unique. Love and appreciate each other always, good luck!
My heartfelt congratulations to the parents of our future newlyweds! A great and responsible task has been done; only great happiness and good luck await them ahead. I wish you a calm and fruitful preparation for your wedding, deep and comprehensive love, and energy to overcome all possible adversities. May mutual understanding, kindness and tenderness be with you.
Such congratulations are addressed to both young people and their parents. They may be shorter than toasts, but this does not affect the overall atmosphere of the matchmaking.
So that guests don't get bored
The groom's parents take an active part in matchmaking. Initially, his closest relatives were sent as assistants to the groom. At the same time, the parents remained at home.
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- We are truly glad that we experience such warm feelings. I would like to wish each of you to love, because without this life is simply not interesting.”
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Congratulations can be written both in poetic form and in your own words. Both options can have different colors: from mixed to lyrical.
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Before writing a speech, you have to decide in advance what color the congratulatory speech will have.
There are many customs for this ceremony, some of which are still used today. Whether to do this or not is up to everyone, but I will briefly talk about the main attributes:
What did a young man do when he wanted to get married?
Entire rituals were invented and sacredly observed everywhere. The first thing the young man had to do was obtain the consent of his relatives for the marriage. Only after this the matchmaking itself took place. Customs ordered him to come to the head of the clan and tell about his chosen one. Usually it was reported who she was, where she lived, and what her relatives were. Most often, the young man was interested in the appearance and attractiveness of the young woman. And the relatives conducted a whole “investigation”, finding out whether the girl was worthy of such an honor. When a consensus was found, matchmakers were chosen. It was a very responsible role. And even now nothing has changed. The fellow rarely went to offer himself as a groom (although this happened). More often this was done by his relatives. One has a godfather or mother, the other has an older brother, and so on.
How to conduct a ritual in verse - script
Such a script can be found on special websites, or you can write it yourself according to the provided sample. The main thing that is required in this case is that the participants know the poems by heart and practice reciting them.
Here is one version of such a scenario:
The groom's side must prepare and learn the words. It’s not difficult at all, but the holiday will be more fun. Guests will be simply delighted. If the wedding is being held in a village, then it’s a good idea to find a cart and roll it to the bride’s place of residence. The groom stands on the cart at the gate and knocks loudly.
After this, the matchmaker continues.
The bride and her friends leave the house. The groom goes to choose a bride from a variety of girls and puts a ring on her finger. After that, he takes his beloved in his arms.
The bride's family invites everyone to the table. At the same time, the following congratulations are heard.
Here is another original and fun matchmaking scenario:
Modern matchmaking is simply an occasion for additional fun, artistry and creativity, a beautiful ceremony if thought through well. But did you have such a pre-wedding stage, and what do you remember most of all?
